Modest Swimwear Options
#2
Posted 19 June 2009 - 01:33 PM
#3
Posted 19 June 2009 - 02:20 PM
#5
Posted 19 June 2009 - 03:17 PM
Women have been swimming in variants of the same swimsuit since the 1800s and it hasn't caused safety problems in the past. What they were wearing back in the day was even more detailed and covering then what devora has created.
The bathing suits these days resemble undergarments (bras/camis and underware). They are made for the very purpose of exciting the opposite sex and showing off one's body (which is pride/vanity). Neither of these purposes are modest. And it is these suits that keep women down, I think. When a woman wears a binki (or even a tikini or one piece - which while much more modest is nothing more then a cami and underware) she, unforunately, is going to attact the attention of others, and when you are at the beach or in mixed company it is usually immodest attention or glances. They are not looking at our faces or recognizing some great personaility we have. They are focused on our bodies. She risks leading others into sin and being objectified. She risks being a temptation.
I just don't see our Lady wearing a bikini, takini, or even a one piece. I imagine she would sit out before she would show so much of herself to the world. If she is the lady we are to model ourselves after, then I would rather sit out too unless there is something I could wear that would eliminate this issue and help me to retain any modesty about me. And now there is another option! . :clap:
I don't see how it restricts and hinders the safety of women either. Women have been swiming in much more detailed and covering suits for hundreds of years



#6
Posted 19 June 2009 - 03:24 PM
#7
Posted 19 June 2009 - 03:27 PM
The Speedo long suits are worn because they reduce drag and compression fatigue. It's not usually a modesty issue at that level of competition. I'm not saying they aren't ever worn for that reason. It just isn't the main use.
As for the historical references, a lot of old "bathing costumes" actually were a safety hazard because of the weight. Many, though not all, were made from wool, which is heavy when wet. Add to that a corset and the inability to swim, and you have a much higher chance of trouble. The women that wore them weren't swimming. They were wading or staying on the beach. Humans have been skinny dipping (or wearing only loincloths in the water) for far longer than they've been wearing activity specific clothing.
All that said, I'm glad usable options are available to those that need them.
#9
Posted 19 June 2009 - 04:00 PM
Nadezhda, on Jun 19 2009, 02:27 PM, said:
The Speedo long suits are worn because they reduce drag and compression fatigue. It's not usually a modesty issue at that level of competition. I'm not saying they aren't ever worn for that reason. It just isn't the main use.
As for the historical references, a lot of old "bathing costumes" actually were a safety hazard because of the weight. Many, though not all, were made from wool, which is heavy when wet. Add to that a corset and the inability to swim, and you have a much higher chance of trouble. The women that wore them weren't swimming. They were wading or staying on the beach. Humans have been skinny dipping (or wearing only loincloths in the water) for far longer than they've been wearing activity specific clothing.
All that said, I'm glad usable options are available to those that need them.
+J.M.J.+
well said. i like that they are nicer looking than a t-shirt over a one-piece, but i wouldn't wear it. i don't swim anyway, but if i did, i'd get a one-piece.
#12
Posted 19 June 2009 - 08:49 PM
#13
Posted 20 June 2009 - 02:16 PM
jumpfrog, on Jun 20 2009, 04:49 AM, said:
Those look really cool!
I love swimming, but my community has decided not to do it because of modesty. Maybe if they start women-only hours at the pool... (Some pools have this, mostly for Muslim women. Think what you like about Islam, I love their modesty and elegance!)
#18
Posted 08 July 2009 - 12:41 PM
Those of us who are discerning to more traditional life and have already begun the steps towards inward consecration (which I believe happens before one even steps foot in a community!) have decided to sit the pool part out. We will be there, just not in bathing suits, which as someone already pointed out, often do look like underwear. So, for the sake of modesty (and finances - some of those "modest" swimsuits are expensive!) we are sitting it out.
I always wondered how my former Novice Mistress kept her cool in her long habit during the days of extreme heat and humidity. It wasn't until she passed and we read her spiritual diary in the Refectory that we learned she offered it up for the "sins of the flesh, especially against modesty - for those in the world!" Obviously a very traditional nun and heavily influenced by Pope Pius X.
Something else to ponder.
One last word - for those of you who are at this level of discernment and leaning towards modesty, most YWCA's have "women only" times for swimming. This practice solves a lot of problems!
#19
Posted 08 July 2009 - 12:50 PM
She has a small pool in the back yard (quite common in the French countryside), and I'd swim there if there aren't any guests around (as I do now, because I've always been a prude ;) ).
She didn't like it much. I hope she won't be ashamed of me :mellow:

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