Hello Sr. Mary Catherine!

Yeah, I guess I remembered a lot. That's funny about the speed limit sign. I actually didn't recall that one.
One thing I wanted to add was about their spirituality. It is to live the life of the Virgin Mary here on earth, to follow her into the presence of the Three Divine Persons, where she is assumed into Heaven in glory. They began in 1950 on the day the dogma of the Assumption of Our Lady was proclaimed. One of the mottos of their order is the first line from Ephesians, "Blessed be the God and Father of Our Lord Jesus Christ, Who has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places. He chose us in Him before the foundations of the world, to be holy and immaculate in His Presence in Love."
Important things for them are Silence, Solitude, Eucharistic Adoration, the Early Desert Fathers, having both Eastern and Western traditions, Scripture, and Community. They do not say they are hermits. Community is very important to them, as it is also for the Carthusian Nuns. Their silence is an expression of their deep love and respect for one another, as it says on the site of the Carthusian Nuns. They have much more silence and solitude than most wholly contemplative communties, but they are still living in community - in solitude in community. And on Sundays they have a long walk together where they discuss a spiritual topic - a Carthusian tradition. I haven't visited the Carthusians, but I think a few of the biggest differences between them is:
- The Srs of Bethlehem have the Bl Sacrament in their hermitages, the Carthusians do not
- Eucharistic Adoration is a big part of the spiritually of the Srs of Bethlehem, while the Carthusians do not have adoration, or at least not very much, I am not sure (I was told this by someone else)
- the Carthusian liturgy is all in Latin (besides Greek, Kyrie, etc.), Bethlehem's is Byzantine, with Latin elements and in the vernacular with some Greek, Hebrew, and Latin (e.g. Salve Regina) and Roman Mass, Novus Ordo (English/French/some Latin, etc.)
- the Carthusians are an Order so they take solemn vows, the Sisters of Bethlehem take perpetual vows, as they are a Monastic Family, sharing the wisdom and way of life of St. Bruno, but not part of the Order. (solemn vows can only be taken in an Order, like the Carmelites, Poor Clares, Benedictines - this is the difference between "nuns" and "sisters" canonically speaking.)
Don't quote me, because I may be off, but I remember during a presentation I saw of them in France that it was actually a Carthusian monk, maybe the Father General, who told Sr. Marie, the foundress of the Srs. of Bethlehem, that St. Bruno extends his spiritual patronage over her community. That's when the name St. Bruno was added, and the sisters changed the habit from all blue, to the white Carthusian habit, keeping their distinctive blue veil.
- the Carthusians have Papal Enclosure, while the Srs of Bethlehem have Constitutional Enclosure, enclosure according to the constitutions - see Vatican document
Verbi Sponsa-And finally, the Srs. of Bethlehem have a monastery in the US & Canada, though you can be sent to any of the monasteries, as Sr. Mary Catherine said, while the Carthusians only have monasteries of nuns in Europe, and one beginning in Korea
Here is the site of the Carthusian Order, if you have not already been there:
http://www.chartreux.org/Both great orders! Blessings on your discernment! Please keep me in your prayers! God bless you!
Margaret Clare