First of all please don't judge, Everyone around my town/family is judging me.
I'm dating a guy who is 6 years older then me (I'm 19 so not a big deal). He used to be in the seminary, but droped it because it was too stressful on him, and he went in right out of highschool and then decided he wasn't sure if thats what he wanted to do with the rest of his life. That was a year ago.
(those are the two things my family is upset about; his dropping and his age)
Now we've been dating since end of November. and he told me on Monday he was thinking of going back to the seminary. Thats fine by me. I told him I would support him no matter what his decision was and that he shouldn't let me hold him back from his dreams.
Now, my question how do I support him, and show him that I support him??
Also, please any prayers you can give us would be truly appreciated.

P.S. Andrew, if you read this you aren't allowed to tell anyone!!!!

Tell him that you are praying for him. If he goes to visit the seminary for an 'open house' type of thing, volenteer to go with him. Invite him to say the rosary every Friday for his vocation. Just let him know that you are there for him.

I hope this helps.

I agree with the above. I'd also tell him if he does return, that you'll adopt him. We had an adopt a seminarian program here. We were each, those that volunteered, asisgned a seminarian, and each month agreed to send a card or note along with something small. . .socks (apparently that's a need! LOL), phone card, gift card to a local drugstore or restaurant, etc. and agree to pray for them each day, in our prayers. If he's comfortable with you continuing your correspondence with him, since you've had a relationship, that'd be a good idea!

God bless you. ..and no, there's nothing to judge you FOR. Age? You're both consenting adults, it's not like you're 13. The fact that he used to be in the seminary? Well, he didn't leave FOR you, so I'm not sure the issue. However, in the end, it's best to pray for those people that treat you harshly, and move on.

Pax.

Janana,
Your story is strikingly similar to something that happened to my good friend just recently. He ended his time at the seminary because of the doubts he had in his heart about his capacity to live the life and also because he met someone (she too is much younger than he is). I was shocked when he told me...but none the less, supportive.
I think it is very big of you to be supportive of him wherever he feels called to go. No doubt, you have feelings for him...so it cannot be easy for you!!
I think the best way to support him, is to continue to be open and to constantly let him know that you are truly supporting him. This, I'm sure, is NOT an easy decision for him either (he has feelings for you too...)
Be sure of my prayer for the both of you as well. May God strengthen and guide both of you. Our Lady will surely intercede!

Sister Jacqulyn

Thank you all very much for the advice.