QUOTE(Incarnate Word Postulant @ Apr 22 2007, 03:54 PM) [snapback]1253172[/snapback]
I want to say that in a certain way I understand the sadness you feel when members of religious communities act against Church teachings. It is sad that by their actions they choose to not be in communion with the Church. However, as an individual I can not judge a whole community, a whole congregation, order, or council.
Do I pray for these people? I sure do, but I pray that God's will be done, not my own. I pray that their public actions of rebellion, or ignorance, or hurt, do not affect my heart. In the end, my vocation rests in God's hands.
I also want to say that when we have not lived in community it is very easy to idealize religious life. But religious life is hard! We are not perfect, whether we wear a habit or not. Let's ask ourselves what good it does to our vocations to rant in anger for the errors or suppossed errors of others? It is not good for our hearts. It is not good for our vocations. It is not good for our world.
I pray for each one of you, that you will love like Jesus and that you will use your youth and your fire for God, that you pray uncesantly and love with a love that never says enough .
And remember to act justly, to love tenderly and to walk humbly with our God
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Sister makes several very good points. And, realizing, to discern tone via posts is difficult, I wish to make clear my good intentions for the holiness of all and the eternal home of heaven for all religious. I think it is important to address a few others, however:
1. The Holy Father has asked religious sisters to wear an identifiable habit, so yes, when sisters do not, that does reflect poorly on them.
2. That is not to say they do not do good social work.
3. Authentic religious life is about much more than social work.
4. No one is condemning anyone else to hell, that is the judgement we are not to make. However, in assessing the positives and negatives of individual and communal actions of religious, especially when they are seeking new membership on this board, we not only have the right, but the duty to be honest and direct in that assessment when those individuals and communities are teaching against the Church, often under the guise of "diversity" or "conscience". Dissent and subsequently sin, are two very serious things! And, as we are talking about communities of women, who are in leadership and formation roles of other women, children, and parish communities, we must call a spade a spade, even when it is unpleasant to do so.
5. Precisely because religious life is hard, religious women need to be grounded in prayer and glued to Jesus, Mary, the Saints, the Vicar of Christ and the Magisterium of the Church. We have seen the fruits of religious life when divorced from the above.
6. Now, what I have done by bringing all of this up, is only 1/2 of it, the other half is to pray, surrender, and love. We must not be deceived into thinking, however, that somehow it is not appropriate to discern, speak, and spread the truth about the agendas of certain groups of people, including religious. The enemy loves this kind of silence and young women and men deserve to know the truth.