QUOTE(Marieteresa @ Jul 7 2007, 10:47 PM)

What motives are they speaking about? Sorry if Iam in the dark here
The motives that I am speaking about are: (these are NOT my beliefs, but I'm afraid that some of the Sisters might think they are based on if I ask to wear a habit)
1) that I am joining the community for my interest in the habit ... which is not true for me. I feel called to religious life reguardless if they wear a habit or not. I think it's a nice gesture that they'd let me choose this option, but I don't want to stick out like a sore thumb either.
2) that I think ALL sisters should wear habits... I don't think this. If I did, I'd be asking to join a community where it was required. I believe that God calls women to go to certain communities. I believe that I'd still be interested in this community reguardless of whether they offered this choice or not.
3) that my beliefs are that the church should go back to how it was before Vatican 2. I really don't believe this at all. I like the church how it is today. While it's nice to know that there has been change in the past, and may be change in the future, I don't feel it necessary to take a step backwards.
I'm afraid that the Sisters might think one or alot of those things if I ask right away. I want to be in the community for a little while and ask. For me, it would be nice not to have to think about what to wear every day. I also think it would be a nice witness to the church and for the community, but I understand that in some professions that the Sisters hold, it may not be practical anymore.
There's my 2 cents. I hope you understand where I'm coming from a little better now.
Peace,
Anne