QUOTE(chelsea @ Aug 30 2007, 12:35 PM)

So i have two questions, which could probably go into two different threads, but I dont want to hog the VS.
1. Carmelites. Can somebody tell me about any good carmelite communities to look into? Or any info about carmelites in general?
There are two Orders of Carmel in the Church currently - the Carmelites of the Ancient Observance (O.Carm.) & the Discalced Carmelite Order (OCD) founded by St. Teresa of Avila & St. John of the Cross, which many of the well known Carmelites saints were in - St. Therese, Bl. Elizabeth of the Trinity ..
O.Carm. shield -
OCD shield, which has Mt. Carmel merging with the Cross - the only difference
A couple O.Carm. communities on the IRL site :
Coopersburg &
WahpetonHere's a photo page I've been putting together of a few great OCD Carmels (under many of the individual pictures, there are comments/links):
http://picasaweb.google.com/ocdnunsThen there's some more information on the OCD nuns in these threads:
Carmel in the United StatesDiscalced Carmelite Nuns - 1990 & 1991 ConstitutionsOCD Constitutions - 1990 & 1991 Split OpinionSupport for Cloistered Carmelite VocationsIt's in the above threads, but I'll post it here too - the newly updated site of St. Joseph Association:
http://carmelitenunsstjoseph.org/ 
Then there are the many active/contemplative Carmelite communities, like the
DCJs (
different providences page) & the
Carmelites of the Most Sacred Heart of LA.
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2. Silent retreats. How do i find one, and what do i need to know?
Here's a thread that might be helpful -
Catholic Retreat CentersI highly recommend the Sisters of Bethlehem in Livingston Manor, NY for a silent retreat, especially if you happen to be in that area. It is beautiful there! The link on them is in there. :j