QUOTE(HollyDolly @ Dec 31 2007, 05:08 PM)

As someone who had a great aunt and a second cousin as life long nuns ,believe me,nuns dont live in co-ed communities.
While there maybe a few double monasteries around,even in St.Gilbert's time men and women were housed seperately. On line they have the story of the Nun of Watton Priory,whose ghost supposedly haunts the place.
As a young girl she was placed in the Gilbertine convent. Somehow she and one of the monks fell in love
and got invovled so to speak.Somehow the nuns found out and lured the monk into a trap and attacked him in front of her,the nuns having chained her up. It was quite a scandal at the time in England.
There would be too much temptation for men and women to be housed together in a co-ed situation.
So the writer,this doctor doesn't have her facts straight.
There is a Carmelite Community in MA, I think, which is "co-ed."
Check out the nuns' photo thread. There are several "co-ed" communities represented there.
By "co-ed" are we talking about men and women sharing living quarters; a monastery; two distinct monasteries; or what?
Double monasteries were popular in the middle ages. The Gilbertine Nun of Watton is a true story. Their problem erupted from the fact that the dividing wall between the two choirs had not been built yet. Typically, the Gilbertines took extreme measures to keep the two monasteries--and their personnel--segregated.
A double monastery is possible in this day and age. How you approach the situation makes all the difference in the world as to the outcome. Nobody knew about pheremones back then. Today, some simple instruction to the gents; placing a post-menopausal nun in the turn room; and making sure that the restrictions dictated by the rule are in place will help avoid such incidents.
It all goes back to one's focus--what are they really thinking about; why are they really there?
Here's more on our Gilbertine Renewal of the Ancient Observance:
http://cloisters.tripod.com/gilbertinerenewal/Blessings,
Gemma