QUOTE(Noel's angel @ Jun 9 2008, 03:16 PM)

Ok, a wee discussion for ye all.
I'm having difficulties restraining some of the choir members when it comes to Marian hymns. Some of them seem to think that it's okay to stick in a Marian hymn as a second Communion hymn, and that during May we needed to have at least one Marian hymn (even if it was a Feast Day). Any way of telling them (convincingly) that that's just not right?
Please, for the love, heed my advice. This is general advice (can be applied to other situations) learned after many hard-earned experiences.
-Never, ever correct anyone if you do not have the documentation from Church authority to back yourself up.
-If you have the documentation, make sure you understand it...thoroughly...before correcting anyone.
-Provide the documentation to your audience (see points 1 & 2).
-After the audience reads the documentation, you may have to field questions (see point 2).
-Finally, you may have a less-than-willing audience but if they've seen the documentation from authority and have had it explained to them, they will be hard-pressed to argue with you and may cede the point. Grudgingly, perhaps, but you can then proceed--in your case--with bringing liturgically correct music to your parish.
Remember also, charity above all else and that it IS charitable to correct people...it is a spiritual work of mercy to do so.
Hope that helps.
-KJS