QUOTE(CatherineM @ Jun 5 2008, 10:25 PM)

My husband has a friend who goes to mass at least 4 times a day, and sometimes as many as 6 times. He was in seminary when he developed a mental illness. We've tried talking to him about not doing that everyday, but he is beyond scrupulous. Since he goes to different churches, the priest don't realize what he is doing. They just think he is coming everyday to their mass only. I've given up trying to talk to him about it.
This would be a sensitive case, but you may want to bring it to the attention of the priests for the man's own good. Perhaps they will be better at talking with him about his scruples.
QUOTE(TeresaBenedicta @ Jun 5 2008, 10:37 PM)

Hm, yes, that does help, quite a bit actually.
I guess I just wonder if there is a decrease in reverence for the Holy Eucharist in frequent communicating. But, I suppose that wouldn't be the case for those who are going to daily Mass and then also receiving daily. Perhaps it has become simply "habit" for some, or the norm to receive without even considering Who it is being received; but that would be more likely for those who attend Mass less often.
I know that there was a time in the Church when there was an emphasis on our not being worthy to receive, therefore a discouragement from even receiving each week. That was obviously wrong, as someone above quoted St. Pius' remarks on it. But I wonder if we, as a society, have gone too far in the opposite direction; considering it okay to receive in all circumstances besides that of mortal sin.
I guess the real question is: are there any circumstances besides that of mortal sin that should be reason to refrain from receiving Holy Communion? Say-- distraction during the Mass, or being angry with someone, or judging people during Mass, or recognizing that you're in the mindset of thinking you have a right to receive, etc etc.
Well, I would say that there are some situations where it is not fitting for a person to receive Holy Communion, but it's difficult to make distinctions like that. For instance, if a person is distracted unintentionally during Mass (such as good Catholic parents with large families, who very rarely get the chance to pay close attention), then that person should still be able to receive Holy Communion. If, however, the person was intentionally distracted (it's been observed that some teenagers will pop in iPods during Mass), then that person really hasn't even attended Mass, and if it's a Sunday Mass, they shouldn't be receiving Holy Communion because they have violated the Third Commandment in a grave way (assuming they fit the other conditions for mortal sin). In the case of anger, if it's a grave case of anger (which is quite serious), then it could be mortal sin (though not necessarily, given all the conditions), which means no Commuion, but then, there are certain mitigating factors involved. Ultimately, there's a reason the Church doesn't really come out with generalized rules about such things, because there are so many different factors involved. It's really best to leave that matter between the individual, his or her conscience (not that conscience reigns supreme, it must be informed by the teaching of God and Church), the pastor, and the guidelines that are set forth by the Church (though, as I said, those aren't always clear).
As for frequent Communion limiting our appreciation of the Blessed Sacrament, this is possible, but it's not really reason to stop receiving daily. Instead, it's a call to greater awareness and more active, prayerful participation in the Mass. The same could be said of the Our Father; maybe we should say it less often so as not to strip it of meaning, but that's silly, instead, we should say it prayerfully and intentionally, meditating on the words, even if only for a brief moment (by the way, I'm not the best rolemodel of a good prayer life).
God bless,
Micah