QUOTE(toservelove @ Jun 12 2008, 07:41 PM)

Actually, I was asking because it was after making contact that I began to see signs of...not unfaithfulness, but a questioning of Church doctrine. And, it seemed, of putting the rule of their order before the Church. It was subtle and it was hard to tell if it was a few sisters or if it was the way the order was progressing. I asked some direct questions, but I didn't get direct answers. I guess I'm feeling a little disheartened and untrusting now.
Don't let it get you down

I know the phenomenon you mention: the idea that you can do x because "it's monastic and it's totally what St. Benedict would have liked" regardless of whether it's actually Catholic. It can be quite downheartening.
But rest assured there are Benedictine and Cistercian monasteries out there which joyfully live out the Benedictine Rule to its fullest - and that by definition implies that they are content and long to live their Rule nestled in the bosom of the Church. Keep
seeking after peace and persuing it! God will bring you to where He wants you.