Self-image, Relationships, Etc.

[johnnydigit]

[quote name='Light and Truth' post='1671356' date='Oct 6 2008, 01:44 AM']So johnnydigit, your answer if you don't think it is wise to try to be friends with him because it's like too romantically charged or whatnot in my head or something?

I'm not asking for a diff answer, just one that connects more directly to my question. I'm not that bright sometimes, so you have to connect some dots for me and spell out the simple and sweet version. Do I understand correctly that you don't think a platonic relationship can exist and therefore any relationship with the guy is a bad idea? Is that what you are saying?[/quote]

i dunno what i'm saying. just be careful. pray about it. watch your heart. guard it and always keep it in context with God's will.

ok here's one thing. it's hard to have a healthy platonic relationship with someone if one of you is attracted to the other. like in this case, you don't want to do things where you two are alone together, else it crosses into dating. you want to do things in a group if there is an attraction. if you don't take caution, people can get hurt.

lookup Jason Evert and Christopher West [url="http://www.theologyofthebody.com/"]http://www.theologyofthebody.com/[/url]. read their pamphlets and keep learning. pray and go to adoration. find God within yourself, discover who you are. make God your #1, then he'll make you His #1, and you'll be ready to find the 1. until then, don't worry about these guys. God will take care of it when the time comes.