I think I'm the only Phatmasser who is following a vocation to consecrated life in the world, but I could be wrong (and if I post more about it, maybe I will attract some more of us! ). Today I had one of my spells of wishing I could just join a religious community, because I was frustrated by my lack of self-discipline and my selfishness and I wondered how I could ever wrestle these into submission without a community behind me. I have thought of a few little mortifications to help (choosing m