I am not so sure at all as any sort of sweeping generalisation............... I may as well get it all out having come this far…………… glug!    My journey to a completely celibate state was fraught with failure.  I not only had bipolar to contend with, I had the pressure of passion due to the fact that for 15 years I had been sexually active in my marriage.  There were nights when (despite Rohypnol prescribed for sleep – I was diagnosed as insomniac but often could not tell they wh