Thy Geekdom Come Posted December 3, 2004 Share Posted December 3, 2004 [quote name='shelly_freak' date='Dec 3 2004, 01:56 PM'] Yeah I think that's it Raph Anyways cuddling is so cute. [/quote] I'm not for passionate kissing (before marriage...I think the most I will kiss my girlfriend is on the cheeck...although depending on what I can handle, I may consider kissing on the lips once at a time and briefly), but know that men both virtuous and lustful like physical affection. It's built in. The difference is that virtuous men won't do it before marriage and in marriage, it is their way of showing their love, because...well, I could go into it for hours, but someday when you're married, don't think your husband only loves you for your body just because of that...it's just that he expresses his internal emotions and love of all of your being best through his body. Remember that Christ gave us His Body, and men are made to image Christ, while women are made to image the Church. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Duc_In_Altum Posted December 3, 2004 Share Posted December 3, 2004 Watch out for cuddling, though. Passionate hugging and cuddling loads the gun for more to come. No one can just say they'll watch it and draw the line at cuddling. Satan knows how to get the chastity envelope to tear and he does it easily when we let him get his foot in the door. Once we push that envelope, satan's got us. God bless, -Joe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
qfnol31 Posted December 3, 2004 Author Share Posted December 3, 2004 What do you consider cuddling? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shelly_freak Posted December 3, 2004 Share Posted December 3, 2004 I was thinkin like hugging, holding hands, butterfly kisses, putting your arm around them. The way I see it, if I'm not comfortable with my parents seeing what we're doing it's not something I should be doing with anybody but my husband. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thy Geekdom Come Posted December 3, 2004 Share Posted December 3, 2004 [quote name='Duc_In_Altum' date='Dec 3 2004, 04:28 PM'] Watch out for cuddling, though. Passionate hugging and cuddling loads the gun for more to come. No one can just say they'll watch it and draw the line at cuddling. Satan knows how to get the chastity envelope to tear and he does it easily when we let him get his foot in the door. Once we push that envelope, satan's got us. God bless, -Joe [/quote] Yeah. An important thing to remember is that if you do anything like just sitting their and cuddling, let it be on a front porch with a light on you, lol...that should keep things in check. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
homeschoolmom Posted December 3, 2004 Share Posted December 3, 2004 Unmarried couples should stick to Parchisi... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thy Geekdom Come Posted December 3, 2004 Share Posted December 3, 2004 [quote name='homeschoolmom' date='Dec 3 2004, 05:47 PM'] Unmarried couples should stick to Parchisi... [/quote] Not even Scrabble? Is that too risque? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
homeschoolmom Posted December 3, 2004 Share Posted December 3, 2004 [quote name='Raphael' date='Dec 3 2004, 04:48 PM'] Not even Scrabble? Is that too risque? [/quote] HSD and I used to play Scrabble when we were first married... No, unmarrieds should not play Scrabble... (Pyx is a great scrabble word, btw) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thy Geekdom Come Posted December 3, 2004 Share Posted December 3, 2004 [quote name='homeschoolmom' date='Dec 3 2004, 05:50 PM'] HSD and I used to play Scrabble when we were first married... No, unmarrieds should not play Scrabble... (Pyx is a great scrabble word, btw) [/quote] I've played Scrabble with several girls at a time :ph34r:...do I need to go to Confession? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XIX Posted December 3, 2004 Share Posted December 3, 2004 I'm with shelly here. Literally anything and everything that you do with another attractive person can lead to unchastity. I mean, you can not be so scrupulous as to cut out any emotional affection just because it could lead to sin. Cuddling...you have to know yourself, I think, and of course you have to be careful. But I see nothing wrong with a hug...I'm not even sure how that would be tempting at all if you do it right (by hugging at the shoulders.) Cuddling I am fine with...again, just don't cuddle where you shouldn't cuddle. On the contrary, when I get a nice long hug from somebody (even a guy) the spiritual benefits are great. It's a perfectly chaste form of physically expressing yourself, and it always makes unchastity even more repulsive to me. There should always be a line, and you should pray to God because different people have different turn-ons. You really can't compartmentalize something like this and say that everybody going to be temted by the same things. Somebody I know say that he gets very excited by somebody whispering in his ear. He wouldn't even want his own wife to do that with him because it's such a turn on. Not all people react the same way to cuddling or hugging, or hand holding. One thing does NOT always lead to another--it does sometimes, but to say it always does just ignores the fact that we can have self control as a gift from God. I can give la member of the opposite a really long, die-in-your-arms kind of hug without being turned at all. I mean, I give my own mother the same kind of hugs! So it's not something I relate to sex really. I mean, that is just the way I'm wired. I really like ankle hugs too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XIX Posted December 3, 2004 Share Posted December 3, 2004 [quote name='Raphael' date='Dec 3 2004, 04:45 PM'] Yeah. An important thing to remember is that if you do anything like just sitting their and cuddling, let it be on a front porch with a light on you, lol...that should keep things in check. [/quote] Good point! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thy Geekdom Come Posted December 3, 2004 Share Posted December 3, 2004 [quote name='XIX' date='Dec 3 2004, 06:01 PM'] Good point! [/quote] Thank Stephen Wood. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
homeschoolmom Posted December 3, 2004 Share Posted December 3, 2004 [quote name='Raphael' date='Dec 3 2004, 04:52 PM'] I've played Scrabble with several girls at a time :ph34r:...do I need to go to Confession? [/quote] No. I don't think so. You probably weren't playing it the way we were... We ususally played it normally... but sometimes we'd play it where we just completely made up words. Then we had to say what they meant... :ph34r: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balthazor Posted December 3, 2004 Share Posted December 3, 2004 [quote name='Raphael' date='Dec 3 2004, 04:52 PM'] I've played Scrabble with several girls at a time :ph34r:...do I need to go to Confession? [/quote] That depends ......what words were you spelling? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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