2 freinds at war with each other

[ForHimAlone]

Yep, I agree with Norseman. It's very important just to keep these things as low-key as possible. Holding a grudge against someone is a very heavy burden, and they will start to feel it. You have said what you needed to say. Just try to be there for both of them without direct intervention. When they start to really feel the weight of a grudge, be there to help them out of it and to take some of their load for them. That's about all you can do.

Take it from a 17-year-old girl who's seen more of these than she'd like.

[curtins]

[quote name='Norseman82' date='Feb 12 2006, 12:53 PM']Also, are you male or female?  And do you attend the same school as them?  Are they in your circle of friends?  Whereas you may not be able to get them talking again, perhaps [i]group peer pressure[/i] could make things move along.  But the bottom line is this:  this has already escalated to the point of lawsuits, so even group peer pressure may take a while.

And then you have to worry about the parents!!!!
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im a dude

they go to my school and they're in my circle of freinds- kinda

[Norseman82]

[quote name='curtins' date='Feb 12 2006, 12:11 PM']im a dude

they go to my school and they're in my circle of freinds- kinda
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You may also need to allow for a "cooling down" period.

[curtins]

yeah i think this has been going on for at least a month tho