Luthien Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 [quote name='saline_queen' post='1820917' date='Mar 31 2009, 02:22 AM']I have a stalker too. But, she's psychotic. She tried to burn my house down, she hacked my computer and tried to break my husband and I up. She was a good friend of his long before I even met him. Jealousy is stupid. lol.[/quote] Woooah... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CatherineM Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 [quote name='saline_queen' post='1820917' date='Mar 30 2009, 11:22 PM']I have a stalker too. But, she's psychotic. She tried to burn my house down, she hacked my computer and tried to break my husband and I up. She was a good friend of his long before I even met him. Jealousy is stupid. lol.[/quote] That sounds like my mother in law. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jon2004 Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 Seriously though, for personal protection (outside of laying hands on the dude) two words, BEAR MACE. My wife carries it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bonkers Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 [quote name='missionseeker' post='1820402' date='Mar 30 2009, 11:23 AM']I don't think it's funny when someone has repeatedly been told to leave someone alone and yet they still call and send emails to that person and her boyfriend.[/quote] whether you want to win a girl or crack a nut, the key is persistence; keep at it, and never lose your cool. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HisChildForever Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 (edited) Nevermind. Edited April 3, 2009 by HisChildForever Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missionseeker Posted April 3, 2009 Author Share Posted April 3, 2009 no.. that was my response to his reply that "For the last time, I am not interested! SOMEONE can't take a joke and Joann (my mother) tell your sister God loves her, she has an anger issue" or something like that... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HisChildForever Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 [quote name='missionseeker' post='1823396' date='Apr 3 2009, 11:48 AM']no.. that was my response to his reply that "For the last time, I am not interested! SOMEONE can't take a joke and Joann (my mother) tell your sister God loves her, she has an anger issue" or something like that...[/quote] Oh, I totally missed that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bonkers Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 Girls are so paranoid (guys too). Don't get me wrong, there are some creeps out there (girls too), but some girls tend to think any guy who looks at them the wrong way must be a stalker or pervert. I dunno what this guy is like, it seemed like a pretty stupid thing to say, but is there sufficient reason to accuse him of being a stalker and creep and then gloat about it on a message board? I'm not sure it's something to be proud about. How exactly has he "stalked"? Has he done the whole peer through the bushes or binoculars thing?? There's nothing wrong with repeatedly asking a girl out. No can mean 'try harder' or 'ef off' depending on the girl. Maybe he's confused, but not bad, or creepy. Then again, maybe he is. I dunno. Girl power indeed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rizz_loves_jesus Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 [quote name='bonkers' post='1823402' date='Apr 3 2009, 11:53 AM']No can mean 'try harder' or 'ef off' depending on the girl.[/quote] No means no. It doesn't mean "try harder." Why can't guys just understand that? ---------------- Now playing: [url="http://www.foxytunes.com/artist/jon+mclaughlin/track/beating+my+heart"]Jon McLaughlin - Beating My Heart[/url] via [url="http://www.foxytunes.com/signatunes/"]FoxyTunes[/url] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Winchester Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 (edited) I didn't know what this thread was about when I plugged The Bus Station. The Bus Station is not about demeaning serious threads. Edited April 3, 2009 by Winchester Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missionseeker Posted April 3, 2009 Author Share Posted April 3, 2009 Considering that I was molested for 6years, stalked for two (had to switch schools cuz of it) and have had various other incidents with gross guys, I think I have a right to 'paranoid', eh? Actually, I am generally ok at determining creepy or not (given that I have had experience with it) This guy has been doing stuff since last semester to warrant being called a creep. I am sure that I overreacted, but frankly, I don't care. One too many guys got on my nerves and he got the brunt of it. Too bad for him? Idk. His roommates say he's creepy, and I trust them. He he has been annoying my friend, sending her boyfriend threatening emails, ect. Perhaps he is confused, but... a kick in the rear is a push forward, eh? This is definitely "eff off" (am I allowed to say that?). He knows I have boyfriend. (not that would stop him, obviously) but seriously... I am so sick of guys being pigs, that this guy got the ... whatever he got... I am not gloating. Usually I have problems sticking up for myself about stuff like this. Like when my boss calls me sexy and babe. So I am just surprised at myself. that's all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bonkers Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 [quote name='rizz_loves_jesus' post='1823407' date='Apr 3 2009, 11:59 AM']No means no. It doesn't mean "try harder." Why can't guys just understand that? [/quote] Cos it doesn't, it just doesn't... My ex I asked out three times before she agreed to go on a date. My previous before that I "chased" for almost a year. Some girls like the thrill of a chase, some girls don't, it depends on the girl. Not every girl is like you (assuming you are a girl). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Winchester Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 [quote name='bonkers' post='1823414' date='Apr 3 2009, 12:06 PM']Cos it doesn't, it just doesn't... My ex I asked out three times before she agreed to go on a date. My previous before that I "chased" for almost a year. Some girls like the thrill of a chase, some girls don't, it depends on the girl. Not every girl is like you (assuming you are a girl).[/quote] So your relationship strategy is the Stockholm Syndrome. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missionseeker Posted April 3, 2009 Author Share Posted April 3, 2009 maybe that's why they're all exes? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HisChildForever Posted April 3, 2009 Share Posted April 3, 2009 [quote name='bonkers' post='1823402' date='Apr 3 2009, 11:53 AM']Girls are so paranoid (guys too). Don't get me wrong, there are some creeps out there (girls too), but some girls tend to think any guy who looks at them the wrong way must be a stalker or pervert. I dunno what this guy is like, it seemed like a pretty stupid thing to say, but is there sufficient reason to accuse him of being a stalker and creep and then gloat about it on a message board? I'm not sure it's something to be proud about. How exactly has he "stalked"? Has he done the whole peer through the bushes or binoculars thing?? There's nothing wrong with repeatedly asking a girl out. No can mean 'try harder' or 'ef off' depending on the girl. Maybe he's confused, but not bad, or creepy. Then again, maybe he is. I dunno. Girl power indeed.[/quote] A man does NOT have to be staring at you through the bushes in order to be labeled a "stalker." My ex-boyfriend "stalked" me for half a year (give or take) and none of it was done in person. You can harass and "follow" someone just as well through Myspace, Facebook, text messages, telephone calls (house and cell), and through contacting family and friends. Furthermore, there IS something wrong with repeatedly asking a girl out when she originally declined. If she changes her mind, she will tell the guy. Harassing a girl for a date will get you no where but in trouble. If a guy cannot accept that the girl is not interested and his like turns into infatuation and obsession, there is a huge problem. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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