O My Goodness. I Cannot Believe What I Just Did

[HisChildForever]

[quote name='bonkers' post='1823414' date='Apr 3 2009, 12:06 PM']Cos it doesn't, it just doesn't... My ex I asked out three times before she agreed to go on a date. My previous before that I "chased" for almost a year. Some girls like the thrill of a chase, some girls don't, it depends on the girl. Not every girl is like you (assuming you are a girl).[/quote]

So you have come to the conclusion that a girl saying "no" does not MEAN "no" based on, what, two experiences? And there is a huge difference between a girl playing hard to get - who says "no" and yet blatantly flirts and leads the guy on for the fun of it - and the girl who firmly says "NO" and does everything in her power to avoid the guy when he continues bothering her.

[bonkers]

[quote name='Winchester' post='1823419' date='Apr 3 2009, 11:08 AM']So your relationship strategy is the Stockholm Syndrome.[/quote]

Sorry Steve?

[Winchester]

How could he tell it was you with those snazzy glasses?

[HisChildForever]

[quote name='Winchester' post='1823434' date='Apr 3 2009, 12:13 PM']How could he tell it was you with those snazzy glasses?[/quote]

The snazzy glasses are nothing. I ignored him despite the insane things he spewed which literally drove him crazy. And THEN I gave him a virtual slap when I changed my cell phone number, among other things.

[Maggyie]

It's usually best to go with your instincts. If you are feel the creep effect it's probably for a good reason. However bonkers is right that no does not mean no for a lot of girls. It means "not right now" sometimes.