Kurall_Creator Posted April 28, 2009 Share Posted April 28, 2009 Hey everybody, I have a great girl, and I really care about her, and I think the world of her. We have some disagreements once and a while, stemming from the fact I believe in God and Jesus, and she doesn't (please don't lecture me when it comes to be not evenly yoked with an unbeliever - I know the scriptures pretty well), and when it happens, she gets all pissed off at me, and it's like the great friendship we have is thrown out the window for her, because I 'am hurting her'. I don't want to hurt her, and I am not trying to be rude to her, and I mean no disrespect, but she acts totally out of proportion. So, can all of you please pray that I have patience in this situation. Thanks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cmotherofpirl Posted April 28, 2009 Share Posted April 28, 2009 Prayers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jaime Posted April 28, 2009 Share Posted April 28, 2009 There's a fine line between true love and a restraining order Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kurall_Creator Posted April 28, 2009 Author Share Posted April 28, 2009 [quote name='hot stuff' post='1851597' date='Apr 28 2009, 07:29 PM']There's a fine line between true love and a restraining order[/quote] Yeah, I'm almost thinking that myself. That's why I need patience, or guidance. I know I shouldn't be going up with her according to scripture, but it's nice to be with a girl that can make me laugh, and who can inspire me to be my best. Hopefully, if it's the wrong decision, God will turn it into something good for me, as he has a habit of turning anything bad to good for those who love him and are called according to his purpose. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Norseman82 Posted April 28, 2009 Share Posted April 28, 2009 (edited) [quote name='hot stuff' post='1851597' date='Apr 28 2009, 07:29 PM']There's a fine line between true love and a restraining order[/quote] Or as King Jaffe Joffer said, "There is a fine line between love and nausea" Edited April 28, 2009 by Norseman82 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eagle_eye222001 Posted April 28, 2009 Share Posted April 28, 2009 Pray the right decision is made. ---------------- Now playing: [url="http://www.foxytunes.com/artist/linkin+park/track/pushing+me+away"]Linkin Park - Pushing Me Away[/url] via [url="http://www.foxytunes.com/signatunes/"]FoxyTunes[/url] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thessalonian Posted April 28, 2009 Share Posted April 28, 2009 You do well to seek patience. God respects her free will and you must as well. Certainly seek guidance that you may know when to speak and when to remain silent. You must win her over with love. I will add you to my prayers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tinytherese Posted April 29, 2009 Share Posted April 29, 2009 The thread title reminded me of this one quote that basically goes "God grant me patience, and please do it now!" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kurall_Creator Posted April 29, 2009 Author Share Posted April 29, 2009 Yeah, it was wrong of me. She gave me a fairly nasty message on facebook in the past hour, after I asked her to cool it, and that I wasn't attacking her, or trying to hurt her. She is so unreasonable. Anybody who disagrees with anything she says is personally attacking her. . . There's other things too, but when after the nasty message, I decided that it was enough, I asked her to apologize to me because I've done nothing wrong and if she didn't I would block her, and then she said she wouldn't, and didn't care, so I ended it. She was a great girl, a great artist, and all around cool person, but you never really realize how wrong a person can be for you until you get close enough to learn about them. Oh well. Why do I feel like this , after doing the right thing. I hate it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jaime Posted April 29, 2009 Share Posted April 29, 2009 [quote name='Kurall_Creator' post='1851738' date='Apr 28 2009, 10:30 PM']Yeah, it was wrong of me. She gave me a fairly nasty message on facebook in the past hour, after I asked her to cool it, and that I wasn't attacking her, or trying to hurt her. She is so unreasonable. Anybody who disagrees with anything she says is personally attacking her. . . There's other things too, but when after the nasty message, I decided that it was enough, I asked her to apologize to me because I've done nothing wrong and if she didn't I would block her, and then she said she wouldn't, and didn't care, so I ended it. She was a great girl, a great artist, and all around cool person, but you never really realize how wrong a person can be for you until you get close enough to learn about them. Oh well. Why do I feel like this , after doing the right thing. I hate it.[/quote] Yeah that's why David Berkowitz finally just got a dog Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eagle_eye222001 Posted April 29, 2009 Share Posted April 29, 2009 If she was being so unreasonable....... then obviously she's not someone you want to be with when there is conflict. Sorry it had to be difficult. ---------------- Now playing: [url="http://www.foxytunes.com/artist/lifehouse/track/chapter+one"]Lifehouse - Chapter One[/url] via [url="http://www.foxytunes.com/signatunes/"]FoxyTunes[/url] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sojourner Posted April 29, 2009 Share Posted April 29, 2009 [quote name='Kurall_Creator' post='1851738' date='Apr 28 2009, 08:30 PM']Yeah, it was wrong of me. She gave me a fairly nasty message on facebook in the past hour, after I asked her to cool it, and that I wasn't attacking her, or trying to hurt her. She is so unreasonable. Anybody who disagrees with anything she says is personally attacking her. . . There's other things too, but when after the nasty message, I decided that it was enough, I asked her to apologize to me because I've done nothing wrong and if she didn't I would block her, and then she said she wouldn't, and didn't care, so I ended it. She was a great girl, a great artist, and all around cool person, but you never really realize how wrong a person can be for you until you get close enough to learn about them. Oh well. Why do I feel like this , after doing the right thing. I hate it.[/quote] Sorry things turned out so poorly. There are lots of great people in the world that wouldn't be a good fit, for one reason or another. This is, of course, the reason we date, so you can find out sooner rather than later that a person doesn't mesh well with you. Just because objectively things aren't going to work, though, doesn't mean you don't have feelings of sadness that things ended, especially when they end badly. Grieving is OK. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CatherineM Posted April 29, 2009 Share Posted April 29, 2009 Anytime Christians bring up necessary stuff these days, they are being branded as attackers or hate criminals. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Groo the Wanderer Posted April 29, 2009 Share Posted April 29, 2009 (edited) Careful what you pray for. I prayed for patience and ended up at a job where one guy constantly suks his teeth and smacks while he eats. must...not...approach...ice...pick.... Edited April 29, 2009 by Groo the Wanderer Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dUSt Posted April 29, 2009 Share Posted April 29, 2009 Always take advice from hot stuff when it comes to wimins. He's the wimins master. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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