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OraProMe

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Can you guys take the psychology discussion elsewhere?
Thanks everyone else :)
+ thanks for your perspective Hassan.

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[quote name='Resurrexi' post='1878715' date='May 30 2009, 10:53 PM']Some people spell that name Katherine or Kathryn...

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My name is spelled like the latter :)

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rose wrought of iron

[quote name='Moosey' post='1878797' date='May 30 2009, 10:52 PM']My name is spelled like the latter :)[/quote]

:shock:

Mine too. :blink:

Our mothers must be of the same coolness.


- back on topic -

Praying for you! :yes: :sign:

Doing the right thing is definitely not always easy, but the rewards are worth it. You can make it through this. :)

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[quote name='OraProMe' post='1878387' date='May 30 2009, 10:29 AM']Long story short:

Through most of 2008 I was in a relationship with this guy (for those who don't know, I'm a guy too). We broke up at the end of last year and a few months ago we started talking again. This guy is close to perfect, no joke. He's kind, smart, intelligent, hard working, athletic, attractive, musical. Like, everything. So anyway a few weeks ago he said he regretted us breaking up, that he missed me so much and wanted to be together again. I didn't give an answer because I've been torn between my faith and sexuality. Eventually I decided that I'll do the will of the Father and not my own. So, despite the fact that I love him and miss him a heck of a lot I told him that I couldn't be with him. I can't even begin to explain how hard this was, for an entire year he was one of the best things in my life and I wanted to be back with him more than anything.

I've prayed a lot and on Friday spent an hour infront of Our Lord at the Cathedral literally talking about it under my breath, getting out everything I was feeling and asking God to make me strong.

I think knowing that I can be with him if I want but rejecting him is harder to deal with than just breaking up. I don't know what to do.

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ugh. I'm sorry. :sadder: that's such a tough, painful position to be in. keep praying, keep living your faith; being in a solid relationship with God is more important than anything else.

*hug*

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