Discerning With A New Community

[Cherie]

Can't reply as long as I'd like to as I'm doing this via my husband's phone (I may return later!), but I discerned and entered a "new" community (for a number of years) and it was truly wonderful.

Sure, there are some difficulties, particularly for personalities who do not like change, because the community is still establishing itself, and things that have been set in stone for ages with older communities can still change around as the newer one grows and matures--things as fundamental as the daily schedule. Difficulties along those lines are things you would never have to deal with in an older community.

But on the other hand, it can have joys and excitements that you wouldn't find in an older community! You get to be a pioneer! You get to help shape the future of this community for generations to come! You will do amazing things for God and His Church in a very concrete way. Of course this happens in older communities too, but the point is just that the dynamic is different. There are aspects, good and bad, that you find in old communities that you won't find in newer ones, and vice versa.

It does take "extra", particular, and very focused discernment, and I absolutely agree that it is a special calling. I've heard the Sisters in my previous community refer to it like that. But it's a beautiful calling, and very needed. The Holy Spirit wants to build up this religious community, and you get to help set the foundation stones! What an honor! And also, very humbling ... it means you have to work very hard to persevere, because it's the work of a Saint. No room for selfishness there!

Prayers for you in your beautiful, holy vocation!