rachael Posted October 15, 2004 Posted October 15, 2004 [quote name='cathoholic' date='Oct 15 2004, 01:18 AM'] I'm cathoholic and I approve this message [/quote] :crackup:
picchick Posted October 15, 2004 Posted October 15, 2004 K can I join? I never had a bf. I went out on one date. Can I join?
EcceNovaFacioOmni Posted October 15, 2004 Posted October 15, 2004 Nope. I've been asked but a girlfriend wouldn't fit into the picture with my schedule (and the fact that I am leaning towards a chaste religious vocation).
lanie Posted October 15, 2004 Posted October 15, 2004 I've had a few boyfriends, and the last one ended messy and I regret it. I admire those of you who have never been in relationships, especially those who have just chosen not to be. Does that just sound strange?
Phazzan Posted October 16, 2004 Posted October 16, 2004 [quote name='picchick' date='Oct 15 2004, 10:37 AM'] K can I join? I never had a bf. I went out on one date. Can I join? [/quote] No, you're too experienced. :angry:
J.R.D Posted October 16, 2004 Posted October 16, 2004 Dating is bad it leads to bad choices... belive me i know
shelly_freak Posted October 16, 2004 Posted October 16, 2004 not necissarly, sometimes it leads to marriage. my parents dated and look where they are now...two kids and happily married for 26 years
Homestarlover85 Posted October 16, 2004 Posted October 16, 2004 [quote name='Enda' date='Oct 14 2004, 03:06 PM'] Hey man you should get one. That's the cool thing nowadays. [/quote] HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
theculturewarrior Posted October 16, 2004 Posted October 16, 2004 No worries, qfnol. Everyone who has somebody is blessed to have them, if nothing else, because they have the opportunity to love in the truest sense of the word. (Especially, in the sacrificial sense). Everybody who is single is also blessed, because they have the opportunity to discern, to focus on other important matters, to listen to God's voice to see if they are being called to a higher calling. Marriage and single life are both blessed, they were both created by God. It is better to be satisfied with what you have, and to discern what you need and pray for who you need. The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.
Moosey Posted October 16, 2004 Posted October 16, 2004 Im more qualified to join than anybody...I havent even come close to having a boy friend...and wont for a long time.
Enda Posted October 16, 2004 Posted October 16, 2004 Well, at least i'm not the only one whose never been kissed either. I've been doing some thinking about this (rommantic realtionships I mean) and I think I've reached the conclusion that dating outside of courtship would be lust. Now, I'm not calling it nessacrilly sinful, but I still think it's lust. I mean aren't a couple who really aren't even thinking about getting married just using each other so they can feel good? That's what lust is. Then there's the fact that they're giving their heart to someone that they have no intrest in marrying. Isn't this why we don't have sex before marriage in the first place? I mean if you're constantly just giving your heart away it doesn't mean anything to you and it won't mean anything more when you give it to your spouse. It just seems that we here in this club should be [i]proud[/i] that we've never dated or been kissed casue we're the one's who actually value our hearts!
picchick Posted October 16, 2004 Posted October 16, 2004 [quote name='Phazzan' date='Oct 15 2004, 10:15 PM'] No, you're too experienced. :angry: [/quote] I can't?????? I assure you that they weren't good experiences. Fine then I'll make my own club. :angry: J.R.D Dating is not in itself bad. Dating is a way to find the one God has picked for you.
hopeful1 Posted October 16, 2004 Posted October 16, 2004 [quote name='Enda' date='Oct 16 2004, 05:25 PM'] Well, at least i'm not the only one whose never been kissed either. I've been doing some thinking about this (rommantic realtionships I mean) and I think I've reached the conclusion that dating outside of courtship would be lust. Now, I'm not calling it nessacrilly sinful, but I still think it's lust. I mean aren't a couple who really aren't even thinking about getting married just using each other so they can feel good? That's what lust is. Then there's the fact that they're giving their heart to someone that they have no intrest in marrying. Isn't this why we don't have sex before marriage in the first place? I mean if you're constantly just giving your heart away it doesn't mean anything to you and it won't mean anything more when you give it to your spouse. It just seems that we here in this club should be [i]proud[/i] that we've never dated or been kissed casue we're the one's who actually value our hearts! [/quote] you read "I've Kissed Dating Goodbye", haven't you. it's a great book once you get past the title
heyyoimjohnny Posted October 17, 2004 Posted October 17, 2004 Dating ain't all its cracked up to be... neither are girlfriends.
heyyoimjohnny Posted October 17, 2004 Posted October 17, 2004 [quote name='picchick' date='Oct 16 2004, 04:28 PM'] I can't?????? I assure you that they weren't good experiences. Fine then I'll make my own club. [/quote] picchick, I think I qualify for your club. Can I join?
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