what angle should I take?

[theculturewarrior]

Hi,

I'm a pretty wimpy guy. I was a lot tougher when I was younger, but now my belly jiggles like a bowl full of jelly, or so my niece says. Also, I'm somewhat sensitive. Not like John Travolta in Urban Cowboy sensitive.

More like Woody Allen sensitive.

In fact, I just wrote a pretty catchy song for a guy friend. It's pretty, well, sensitive.

Seeing all this, what angle should I take with the ladies? (I'm sorry, I'm not going to fight your exboyfriend...that would make me cry?)

I think I may just be *gasp* a metrosexual.

[daugher-of-Mary]

awww don't worry, tcw, most girls like sensitive guys. Honestly, I find the whole "macho" thing quite silly

[theculturewarrior]

That's a relief. *wipes brow*

[Sojourner]

Just be who you are. If there's one thing no girl likes, it's a faker. You want a woman who loves you for being who you are, not what you think she wants you to be. If that makes sense.

[theculturewarrior]

[quote name='Sojourner' date='Oct 29 2004, 09:45 AM'] Just be who you are. If there's one thing no girl likes, it's a faker. You want a woman who loves you for being who you are, not what you think she wants you to be. If that makes sense. [/quote]
I know...but I worry that women won't understand mister peterson.

[Sojourner]

[quote name='theculturewarrior' date='Oct 29 2004, 09:46 AM'] I know...but I worry that women won't understand mister peterson. [/quote]
If she doesn't understand, then she's not the right one, and you shouldn't bother wasting time with her.

[azaelia]

There are girls out there who love the sensitive teddy-bear types. You just might find one who has a talking jacket of her own

[theculturewarrior]

[azaelia]

[quote name='theculturewarrior' date='Oct 29 2004, 12:02 PM'] [/quote]
Why the ?

[Theoketos]

Be wild at heart still.

Be Modest.

Be Loving.

[Quietfire]

If she loves you, then even your belly wont offend her.
Quick story,
My husband used to get into brawls, and even some gang fights when he was younger.
When we ran into each other after being out of school for a few years, he asked me out and I was hesitant.
He was very sweet and polite with women, but I knew about some of his habits and didnt agree with them, but didnt tell him that.
While in the course of our renewed friendship I found out that he didnt like the fighting. He just always got dragged into it.
So there was hope there for me, and him. By then, I had fallen in love with him and found that I didnt need to 'change' him, but rather his 'habits'.

Now he accuses me of turning him into a wimp. If he is in a situation where things seem to be getting violent, he starts looking around for me. I just indicate 'the door' and out we go!
He cries about his belly and I tease him that YES, its massive. LOL

He is different now, but not really. He just needed to find the right person to be himself with....enter me.

Hes 'changed' me too. But that another story.

Point is.....she's out there CW. Dont stare at the clock waiting for her. Trust that God will take of it and He will.

I did. And once again He came through.

Peace.

[Sojourner]

[quote name='azaelia' date='Oct 29 2004, 11:01 AM'] There are girls out there who love the sensitive teddy-bear types. You just might find one who has a talking jacket of her own [/quote]
Don't despair, TCW.

:group:

I'm sure that God will lead you in the right direction.

[theculturewarrior]

[quote name='azaelia' date='Oct 29 2004, 11:06 AM'] Why the ? [/quote]
where am I going to find a woman with a talking jacket? And what if her jacket doesn't get along with mister peterson?

[azaelia]

[quote name='theculturewarrior' date='Oct 29 2004, 12:30 PM'] where am I going to find a woman with a talking jacket? And what if her jacket doesn't get along with mister peterson? [/quote]
Just wait. She'll turn up.


And if Mr. Peterson doesn't get alongh with her, it's time to get a new jacket. Mr. Peterson is holding you back -_-

[BullnaChinaShop]

[quote name='theculturewarrior' date='Oct 29 2004, 11:30 AM'] where am I going to find a woman with a talking jacket? And what if her jacket doesn't get along with mister peterson? [/quote]
Maybe instead of a talking jacket she will have a pair of talking pants that Mr Peterson could get along with. That would make a great match.

[MrsFrozen]

Are you sensitive and caring, or a pushover? Whatever you do, don't be a pushover!!!

[lifeteenchick527]

if you are urself then she will come. pray about it, thats for sure!!!


~God Bless~
~LTC~

[theculturewarrior]

[quote name='MrsFrozen' date='Oct 29 2004, 01:02 PM'] Are you sensitive and caring, or a pushover?  Whatever you do, don't be a pushover!!! [/quote]
I'm working on becoming less of a pushover.

But I'm sensitive in selfish ways. Like why did she look at me like turqoise doesn't match my eyes.

[rachael]

[quote name='daugher-of-Mary' date='Oct 29 2004, 10:31 AM'] awww don't worry, tcw, most girls like sensitive guys. Honestly, I find the whole "macho" thing quite silly [/quote]
same here...i told a guy off the other day for being a macho jerk

[cathgirl]

I'm sure you are wonderful!! When I think of my future husband I don't imagine Arnold S. BTW-I don't know the about the whole talking jacket thing, but I'm sure that since God made someone for everyone with the marriage vocation, I'm sure that he made one for jackets too