AtheistAlex Posted February 13, 2005 Posted February 13, 2005 I am on an 0 - 24 streak with ladies at my school. I wonder what's going on? 1. Talk some small talk 2. Compliment her. 3. Ask her to "go out sometime, you know, like a movie or to lunch or something..." 4. Wait for reply... I guess I'm just too much for these girls...
Brother Adam Posted February 13, 2005 Posted February 13, 2005 Hmm...what is your idea of compliments? Is it anything like this? "I noticed you are drinking 1% milk. Is it because you think you're fat? You aren't fat. You could drink whole milk if you wanted to"
FightingforGod Posted February 13, 2005 Posted February 13, 2005 iono, i am off with guys bc im too forward i think, that or to needy/clingy...the second i gave up on it tho, i met domeone who i can sit and talk with about nething, he seems to like me for me and doesnt expect nething
hopeful1 Posted February 13, 2005 Posted February 13, 2005 maybe take things more slowly? maybe talk to her a little more, find out more about her intrests, and stuff. get to know her a little better... at least that way you'll see if she's someone you'd see yourself with.
AtheistAlex Posted February 13, 2005 Author Posted February 13, 2005 (edited) All good stuff, some of the cases are taken very slowly, like a year long, slowly. Alas, no go. Maybe sometimes she's just not ready. Oh and my compliments are like this, "You have the greatest right shoulder I have ever seen." Edited February 13, 2005 by AtheistAlex
lifeteenchick527 Posted February 13, 2005 Posted February 13, 2005 FIRST GET TO KNOW THE GIRL REALLY WELL!!!!!!!! and then also... maybe shes just not ready...or she doesnt like u...or maybe something else... lol... maybe u should be honest with her...like if u like her let her know...if u dont be like just as friends i dont know...they r just ideas God Bless LTC
AtheistAlex Posted February 13, 2005 Author Posted February 13, 2005 Gotcha, lifeteenchick. Arigatou.
Ash Wednesday Posted February 13, 2005 Posted February 13, 2005 Lifeteen chick is right. Get to know the lady a bit. Take a bit and see if you're getting "signals" from her first. You know, it's been said that the man doesn't make the first move -- the girl does. the long looks, the smiles, the flippy hair thing... "laughing just a little too loud... let's give 'em something to talk about..."
theculturewarrior Posted February 13, 2005 Posted February 13, 2005 are you in High School or college?
theculturewarrior Posted February 13, 2005 Posted February 13, 2005 I find that it takes a little more than small talk. You need a little bond. If you're in high school, I would say, everyone is so superficial and immature in high school, that it really isn't something I would worry about. It could be the women you've approached aren't mature enough. If you're in college, and you're having this problem, I'd say, don't look for someone to have small talk with. You've got a lot more to offer than that. Look for someone to question the universe (or plurality of universes ) with.
theculturewarrior Posted February 13, 2005 Posted February 13, 2005 that is unless you don't find it interesting. Left of center progressivism...any deeply valued interest that you have that can be shared on a more than superficial level. Find a common interest and open yourself to bonding.
J.R.D Posted February 13, 2005 Posted February 13, 2005 Dude you gotta be smooth and funny ... compliment her hair and eyes.... be straight forward ... ask her out to the movies then dinner.... say 7 or 8 and be on time.... ok playa
MichaelFilo Posted February 13, 2005 Posted February 13, 2005 My advice, don't use a list. I won't say I know everything about talking to the "ladies" but I do know that the "ladies" are only the "ladies" when a guy goes to brag about his "skills" with said "ladies". It's only if you treat them like any other friend that you become most able to go out with them. You don't go off to meet dudes by making a list of all the things you'll do, you just do it. Same with girls, just talk to her, know when you aren't wanted, and never have any specific goals from talking to them. God bless, Mikey
AtheistAlex Posted February 19, 2005 Author Posted February 19, 2005 [quote name='theculturewarrior' date='Feb 13 2005, 12:30 AM'] are you in High School or college? [/quote] Oh sorry, this feel a bit, but high school senior...
Phazzan Posted February 19, 2005 Posted February 19, 2005 [quote name='AtheistAlex' date='Feb 12 2005, 11:10 PM'] I am on an 0 - 24 streak with ladies at my school. I wonder what's going on? 1. Talk some small talk 2. Compliment her. 3. Ask her to "go out sometime, you know, like a movie or to lunch or something..." 4. Wait for reply... I guess I'm just too much for these girls... [/quote] That's your problem dude, you [u]compliment[/u] them. You're not supposed to do that, you're supposed to belittle them like say they smell bad so they think you're too good for them. But then give them a small compliment to butter them up a bit like tell them they have nice elbows and they will be so flattered they fall in love with you. That's how you get chicks! :thumb:
immaculata Posted February 19, 2005 Posted February 19, 2005 Phazzan, [quote]Often the best advice you can give is to not give any.[/quote] :rotfl:
lifeteenchick527 Posted February 19, 2005 Posted February 19, 2005 (edited) lol immaculata o and by the way immaculata...i love ur sig!!! God Bless ~LTC~ :hearts: edit: maybe u should look at her sig (hehe) Edited February 19, 2005 by lifeteenchick527
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