Boyfriend not a virgin

[Racing_Chick]

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months, but have known each other for over 2 years. We are very close and are concidering marriage one day, but I strongly believe in waiting for marriage to have sex and he respects that, but he isnt a virgin and it is starting to really bother me, so heres the question, how do I get this to stop bothering me before it messes things up?

If ne one has gone through this I would like to talk to you email me tolazy316@hotmail.com

[Pio Nono]

JMJ
7/2 - Thirteenth Saturday

Racing_Chick,

Trust me - and this is coming from a guy - if he loves you, he'll respect your decision. If you two are looking towards a possibility of marriage in the future, now's a good time to learn to love each other without any sexual component in the relationship. If he won't lay off, tell him straight-up that if he loves you, he'll lay off. If he doesn't, make it clear that you aren't interested in a serious relationship. Your witness of chastity can speak more than any lecture on chastity. Hope this helps.

Yours,
Pio Nono

(btw, is this where I make a generic announcement that this is post #1000?)