For the ladies in our audience

[phatcatholic]

[quote name='theculturewarrior' date='Oct 15 2005, 05:17 PM']I tend to go for women who are into skinny nerdy guys and who don't have boyfriends and have a pulse and stuff. But there's none in my area. (I've looked). :
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haha, yea, same here

[theculturewarrior]

[quote name='phatcatholic' date='Oct 15 2005, 05:29 PM']haha, yea, same here
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You're just the right amount of nerdy, though. [u]I wear suspenders![/u]

[phatcatholic]

haha

[theculturewarrior]

Actually, it's a non-issue with me. Even if there were someone who wanted to marry me, I wouldn't marry. It's not my vocation. (But it sure is nice to have someone to talk to. I miss that!)

[theculturewarrior]

[quote name='phatcatholic' date='Oct 15 2005, 05:44 PM']haha
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See? Even nerds revile me! :

(I really do wear suspenders! )

[Proud2BCatholic139]

[quote name='Raphael' date='Oct 15 2005, 10:21 AM']I wonder what Jen would vote...
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At first, I thought you were referring to me, but I don't think you are. Sorry.

[Thy Geekdom Come]

[quote name='theculturewarrior' date='Oct 15 2005, 06:00 PM'](PS I don't chubby boys with glasses so back off. : )
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I was gonna tell someone else to give you one.

I'm not so chubby anymore, either...I'm not terribly thin, but not chubby...

[Thy Geekdom Come]

[quote name='Proud2BCatholic139' date='Oct 15 2005, 06:52 PM']At first, I thought you were referring to me, but I don't think you are. Sorry.     
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StColette

[Proud2BCatholic139]

No problem!!!

[theculturewarrior]

[quote name='Raphael' date='Oct 15 2005, 06:02 PM'] I was gonna tell someone else to give you one.

I'm not so chubby anymore, either...I'm not terribly thin, but not chubby...
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Phatmass hugs don't do it for me any more. I think I need some hardcopy friends.

That was a bit harsh, the way I said that. I apologize. I guess it was all this "skinny" talk.

[Thy Geekdom Come]

[quote name='theculturewarrior' date='Oct 15 2005, 07:06 PM']Phatmass hugs don't do it for me any more. I think I need some hardcopy friends.

That was a bit harsh, the way I said that. I apologize. I guess it was all this "skinny" talk.
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What are you apologizing for now?

[shelly_freak]

Speaking of nerdy skinny boys it's about time I go see mine, catch ya guys later!

[theculturewarrior]

[quote name='Raphael' date='Oct 15 2005, 06:07 PM']What are you apologizing for now?
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The chubby boys in glasses thing. I feel like I've regressed to TCW last year. This will not do!

[FutureSoror]

This [i]is[/i] comming from the future sister, here, but I truthfully have found that a guy's body seriously doesn't matter to me once I really get to know them. When a friend asks me about a guy I know, I've never been able to answer the question "Is he cute?" I always seem to be indifferent towards guys until I get to know them. In the past I've found myself falling for guys of many different shapes and sizes.

[prose]

I like the "swimmer's build"... (akso known as the "martial arts build"

That's what my hubby is

Funny though... He doesn't do either...

[Maria]

Uh, dunno. Preferably not too flabby, I guess. I can handle a guy who is incompetent in the kitchen (Lord, grant me humility), but I don't want to be better at carrying things (other than babies). But preferably someone whose demeanor and carriage shows respect for his person and his body, and for others.

[Thy Geekdom Come]

[quote name='theculturewarrior' date='Oct 15 2005, 07:11 PM']The chubby boys in glasses thing. I feel like I've regressed to TCW last year. This will not do!
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It wasn't hurtful.

I do need to get to the gym...I'm not chubby, but I am a bit flabby...

[Thy Geekdom Come]

[quote name='Maria' date='Oct 15 2005, 09:38 PM']Uh, dunno. Preferably not too flabby, I guess. I can handle a guy who is incompetent in the kitchen (Lord, grant me humility), but I don't want to be better at carrying things (other than babies). But preferably someone whose demeanor and carriage shows respect for his person and his body, and for others.
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Men who are incompetent in the kitchen are worthless. :




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[Old_Joe]

[quote name='Raphael' date='Oct 15 2005, 09:47 PM']It wasn't hurtful.

I do need to get to the gym...I'm not chubby, but I am a bit flabby...
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Just be thankful that you're not pudgy.

[Sojourner]

I've dated guys of a range of shapes and sizes, and find that the common threads between them, other than faith, is that we make each other laugh, and we can have intelligent, interesting conversations. If those things are in place, and we're comfortable with each other, then there's a strong likelihood that I'll find him physically attractive, even if he doesn't fit anyone's category of "ideal physical specimen."

If those things aren't there, a guy can be drop-dead gorgeous and he just won't get my engine fired up after I've gotten to know him.

As I think about this, I guess I really have two levels of attraction ... there are definitely guys I'd classify as good-looking or not, and I can appreciate the physical appeal of a good-looking man, but when it comes to having a relationship, those things are just part of the overall picture. In other words, the non-physical chemistry is as important as the physical chemistry, and has an effect on the physical chemistry. Make sense?