Fighting in marriage

[Brother Adam]

Fighting in marriage is a good thing.

For instance, I royally perturbed Teresa this morning. This has a two fold effect:

1) It keeps Teresa's blood flowing and thus keeps her more healthy; and

2) It keeps me in shape because I learn to run fast and dodge sharp objects.

[Brother Adam]

Oh come on you know its true

[Azriel]

Oh its so true.

Just remember that the more Teresa practices, the better her aim will get.

[scardella]

So, I guess she doesn't have good aim, huh?

Just remember, don't to bed angry... then she wouldn't have to have good aim...

[annie]

Healthy heated siscussion (aka fighting) is a good thing---clear the air, don't habor grudges, etc. My hubby comes from stoic German farmer background, aka, he is always "right" and 'no need for discussion'---I come from Italian screaming gesturing lay a black rose on your doorstep type of background, and we balance each other nicely.

Always remember what that woman in "My Big Fat Greek Wedding said,
"The man is the head,
but the woman is the neck,
and she can make the head turn ANY WAY SHE WANTS"

[Azriel]

LOL.

That's what I always tell my hubby.

"you got to sleep sometime".

[photosynthesis]

I LOVE getting into fights! The uglier and louder the better!!!

seriously.

except none of my ex boyfriends like fighting with me, go figure!

[Thy Geekdom Come]

Jen and I get into pretend fights on occasion.

I'd rather keep them as pretend fights.

[photosynthesis]

[quote name='Raphael' date='Nov 14 2005, 11:08 AM']Jen and I get into pretend fights on occasion.

I'd rather keep them as pretend fights.
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you don't REALLY know someone until you've seen their wrath.

[Thy Geekdom Come]

[quote name='photosynthesis' date='Nov 14 2005, 12:13 PM']you don't REALLY know someone until you've seen their wrath.
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I've seen her wrath, just directed at other objects.

We've gotten into arguments, I've just never royally ticked her off.

[Brother Adam]

If spouses never get into arguments it is because they never communicate.

[Proud2BCatholic139]

[quote name='photosynthesis' date='Nov 14 2005, 10:52 AM']I LOVE getting into fights!  The uglier and louder the better!!!

seriously.

except none of my ex boyfriends like fighting with me, go figure!
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I always fight with mine.

It's ridiculous, but it is hilarious at the same time because he doesn't make sense.
He would apologize, but then when something doesn't go his way, even when I am not involved, he gets mad at me. I just learned to laugh at it all.
The funny thing is, if he hates me so much, then my does he still try to make contact with me?

[Thy Geekdom Come]

[quote name='Brother Adam' date='Nov 14 2005, 12:20 PM']If spouses never get into arguments it is because they never communicate.
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I'll agree to that.

However, I make the differentiation between arguments and fights. : Jen can't throw things at me...yet.

[Proud2BCatholic139]

Why is that that boys like to pick fights and always want to be right even though they are wrong?

[homeschoolmom]

[Proud2BCatholic139]

It will probably lead me to an early grave. Hehe!
But I love them anyway. Especially poking fun at them.

[philothea]

[quote name='Raphael' date='Nov 14 2005, 11:17 AM'] I've seen her wrath, just directed at other objects.

We've gotten into arguments, I've just never royally ticked her off.
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Oh dear, I forsee trouble.

If poor Jen uses "I am fixin'" in an argument, Micah is going to start laughing and ruin it!

[franciscanheart]

i generally tend to pick the fights.... but hate it when we actually argue. how does that make sense? im starting to think it doesnt.

[Proud2BCatholic139]

My emotions get the best of me, and it's best to release my anger through arguements sometimes.

[scardella]

[quote name='Proud2BCatholic139' date='Nov 14 2005, 12:26 PM']Why is that that boys like to pick fights and always want to be right even though they are wrong?
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Look who's talking, Miss Fight Picker!