icelandic_iceskater Posted December 3, 2008 Share Posted December 3, 2008 are you seeing a consular? If not, you may want to look into that. Spiritual direction is good too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jesus_lol Posted December 3, 2008 Share Posted December 3, 2008 well, i have lost a couple best friends before, for some different reasons. it always smells of elderberries, but eventually it will be a non issue with you if it does happen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lost_in_this_world Posted December 3, 2008 Author Share Posted December 3, 2008 haha no i am not seeing a counselor. i know this post sounds really depressing and its mostly because i post about it when its bothering me but im not like completely focused and depressed about this. im actually pretty happy with most of the other things going on. so even though its a ll sad and depressing im pretty happy most/some of the time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lost_in_this_world Posted December 14, 2008 Author Share Posted December 14, 2008 well i dont know if anyone cares lol but i thought i would add an update. i just hung out with my friend and it was good. im working on getting over the whole fact but for some reason i just cant. its easier for me to just be mad at people then to be hurt by them but im trying. i still dont like it at all and dont think i will. anyway it was good and we'll see where it goes. i think if i had a better relationship with my bro, im sure i would feel better about the situation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Archaeology cat Posted December 14, 2008 Share Posted December 14, 2008 That's great that you were able to hang out with your friend! And who knows, maybe your relationship with your brother will improve through their relationship, given time (I'm a hopeless optimist, in case you can't tell ) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lost_in_this_world Posted December 15, 2008 Author Share Posted December 15, 2008 well its a nice thought that my bro and i relationship might get better but truthfully its a lost cause. it would prolly take a miracle. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lost_in_this_world Posted March 22, 2009 Author Share Posted March 22, 2009 I'm pretty beaver dam sure that our friendship is over. I should've been nicer today but I couldn't. this smells of elderberries. real bad. i feel like it's my fault even tho I dont think it is. that friendship was a wasted effort. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CatherineM Posted March 22, 2009 Share Posted March 22, 2009 Friendships are never wasted effort. It's part of the process of learning how to be in a relationship. The lessons you learned here may make your relationship with your future spouse healthier. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lost_in_this_world Posted March 22, 2009 Author Share Posted March 22, 2009 i disagree although right now my point of view may be a little skewed. i think bad friends form pessimistic opinions about people. at least i do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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