How Do You Find Out Someone's True Colors

[Socrates]

[quote name='Lilllabettt' timestamp='1292090818' post='2192145']
the fact is, all vocations involve risk, and marriage is no different.

Anybody who decides to marry you cannot be certain that 15 years down the road you will not turn into some kind of monster.
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That's why it's important to exercise extra discretion and caution when dating men involved in scientific research. Especially if they are obsessed geniuses who spend many secretive hours alone working on their pet projects.

The unforeseen results of teleportation research tend to be especially gruesome and tragic.

[MissScripture]

[quote name='Lilllabettt' timestamp='1292090818' post='2192145']
the fact is, all vocations involve risk, and marriage is no different.

Anybody who decides to marry you cannot be certain that 15 years down the road you will not turn into some kind of monster. Nobody can have that certainty about themselves let alone somebody else. That's life. The world, the flesh and the devil are always gaming for us.
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That's why in the vows it says, "For better or for worse!"

Basically, you're going to need to trust your instincts, trust your future spouse and put a LOT and a LOT and a LOT of trust in God.

[Paddington]

Listen to the Tesh show if you don't already, because he explains a lot of useful stuff and knows how to put you at ease while doing so. I feel like he is my good friend. Someday I will meet him. I will make sure of it.

[Era Might]

[quote]How Do You Find Out Someone's True Colors[/quote]
Take a picture of them standing beside a rainbow.

[Sarah147]

[quote name='fides quarens intellectum' timestamp='1291676712' post='2191318']
Does the man place Christ first in all things - I mean, is he truly a man of prayer, a man who would never love you more than he loves the Lord, etc? How does he treat his mother (and grandmother, if she's still around)?

In my opinion, the answer to both of these questions will say a lot about who a man really is.
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