J.R.D Posted September 29, 2004 Posted September 29, 2004 You can go asssssssss FAR as you want..... AS long as your Parents are right there sitting in front of you ..... then u can do whatever
Moosey Posted September 29, 2004 Posted September 29, 2004 (edited) Hey heres my solution for myself...Never date Edited September 29, 2004 by Moosey
Moosey Posted September 29, 2004 Posted September 29, 2004 But dont take that the wrong way because I dont intend on getting married either I know I cant say that right now because Im still a youngin and Im also being a turd
livingHimloud Posted September 30, 2004 Posted September 30, 2004 as one of the most inexperienced girls i've ever known (i assume i know myself a little) here's my two cents... don't do anything you couldn't do in front of your mom, or dad, or big brother, or guy friend who likes to act like a big brother, or better yet, your Heavenly Father! hugs are awsome, i am totally a hugger, and fully clothed, clean cuddling is fine too, and little kisses are good (again, i'm totally assuming) but don't do anything that's going to lead to bigger stuff. don't get yourself into situations where anyone's going have to say stop. i was talking to this guy from church the other night, and he was talking about this speaker he had seen. he said the speaker said that a guy should never make the girl ever have to say that he's going too far. and he used this cool example, if you and your fella are at, let's say the grand canyon, the guy isn't going to pick you up and take you right to the edge, cause that's dangerous. if he loves you, he's going to keep you safe, way far from the edge! that's how your relationship should be. he shouldn't be leading close to the danger zone. and you shouldn't be leading him to think that he can do that either. so keep it clean folks!
azaelia Posted September 30, 2004 Posted September 30, 2004 [quote name='picchick' date='Sep 29 2004, 06:28 PM'] Fr. Stan made a point about long kisses. He said that you start getting bored and your hands start moving around and soon you are finding that you are "doing uptown buisness dowtown." [/quote] I love Fr. Stan :wub:
Theoketos Posted September 30, 2004 Posted September 30, 2004 [quote name='toledo_jesus' date='Sep 29 2004, 12:16 PM'] and really, if you should say...become aroused by light kisses, or cuddling, then you need to not do those things. Everybody has a different threshold. You need to learn to recognize the feeling of lust and squash it. [/quote] Amen
White Knight Posted September 30, 2004 Posted September 30, 2004 I'm against dating now, and on the issue of how far is too far, I'd say, heavy kissing goes too far, and will cross into more unneccessary acts of behavior. Ive had 5 girl friends in my 20 years of living.... It took me awhile to get the real idea of dating...... and that is, ya souldn't do it, lol, The LORD, changed my mind about my views of dating, it took me while to accept it unforunately, because I'm really hard headed at times, but thankfully my views on it have changed, Praise the LORD!
Fiat_Voluntas_Tua Posted September 30, 2004 Posted September 30, 2004 Blessed be God! The first question you should ask once you start dating is... "Do you want to try to be as chaste as possible together?" or "Can you help me grow in Chastity through Love?" I love chastity...I only wish it played more of a role in my life! "Lord, give my chastity, but not yet." -St. Augustine
livingHimloud Posted October 5, 2004 Posted October 5, 2004 [quote name='Fiat_Voluntas_Tua' date='Sep 30 2004, 01:11 PM'] "Lord, give my chastity, but not yet." -St. Augustine [/quote]
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