Thy Geekdom Come Posted December 30, 2004 Author Share Posted December 30, 2004 [quote name='Phazzan' date='Dec 30 2004, 04:25 AM'] but in REALITY girls seek partners based on a superficial qualities such as honour, power, wealth and social status. [/quote] 1. Who says I don't have those things? 2. If I don't have the things women look for, and a woman still loves me, doesn't that say something powerful? 3. Women look for security, honesty, trustworthiness, humor, etc...nice looks, money, and power may get initial intention, but the need for those things falls away as true personality comes out to play. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FightingforGod Posted December 30, 2004 Share Posted December 30, 2004 guys think they kno everything...why dont u ask the girls...coughcough Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theculturewarrior Posted December 30, 2004 Share Posted December 30, 2004 [quote name='Raphael' date='Dec 30 2004, 02:17 PM'] 1. Who says I don't have those things? 2. If I don't have the things women look for, and a woman still loves me, doesn't that say something powerful? 3. Women look for security, honesty, trustworthiness, humor, etc...nice looks, money, and power may get initial intention, but the need for those things falls away as true personality comes out to play. [/quote] I don't have any of those things...but I don't like superficial women anyway. Looks are nice, but without a little depth it means nothing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thy Geekdom Come Posted December 30, 2004 Author Share Posted December 30, 2004 [quote name='FightingforGod' date='Dec 30 2004, 03:39 PM'] guys think they kno everything...why dont u ask the girls...coughcough [/quote] That's what I've always done...is what I posted above incorrect? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theculturewarrior Posted December 30, 2004 Share Posted December 30, 2004 [quote name='FightingforGod' date='Dec 30 2004, 02:39 PM'] guys think they kno everything...why dont u ask the girls...coughcough [/quote] honestly, I don't care to ask guys or gals what makes women tick. Women are different. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FightingforGod Posted December 30, 2004 Share Posted December 30, 2004 sry micah, yes, what u said is correct, my comment was made to phazz and those other boysies who think that grls like money and "power"...ever seen spiderman? mj ends up with the honest geek and not the rich astronaut! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FightingforGod Posted December 30, 2004 Share Posted December 30, 2004 oh yeah, when do we get to vote? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
franciscanheart Posted December 30, 2004 Share Posted December 30, 2004 i think i speak for a lot of girls here at the phorum when i say that i want to marry a holy man. above all else he is holy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thy Geekdom Come Posted December 30, 2004 Author Share Posted December 30, 2004 [quote name='hugheyforlife' date='Dec 30 2004, 03:56 PM'] i think i speak for a lot of girls here at the phorum when i say that i want to marry a holy man. above all else he is holy. [/quote] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thy Geekdom Come Posted December 30, 2004 Author Share Posted December 30, 2004 [quote name='theculturewarrior' date='Dec 30 2004, 09:41 AM'] That saying can be read two different ways, but since this is a phamily phorum, I won't elaborate. [/quote] Wouldn't the pope say that nice guys finish simultaneously? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thy Geekdom Come Posted December 30, 2004 Author Share Posted December 30, 2004 [quote name='Phazzan' date='Dec 30 2004, 12:41 PM'] Yeah but you see Raphy's working the 'new age sensitive guy' angle. He doesn't want to come across as stubborn, or egotistic, or proud or anything like that, he wants to come across as "saintly". So you can be as saintly as Raphy all you want, all the girls will like you, all the girls will think you're sent from heaven, but they'll still opt for the prick with the Corvette. Human nature is the darndest thing... [/quote] I'm not working any angle. I used to be very manipulative...I know what women look for because I used to pretend to have it. Using guilt, fear, oppression, hatred, and false image are not good ways to win the love of a woman...only her body because she wants to get the drug you offer her in return, which is false affection. It's not the way to go. I want to be my future wife's best friend, who hangs out with her and wants to be in every part of her life and wants her in every part of my life, who helps her with everything she needs and most importantly--is constantly pouring himself out to her in every little deed of the day. Within the sacrament of marriage, that pouring out of love to her is a pouring out of love to Christ as well. It's not my "angle"...it's who I am and who I want to be...in the order of St. Joseph. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FightingforGod Posted December 30, 2004 Share Posted December 30, 2004 aaaaawww *tear* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Waiting4God Posted December 31, 2004 Share Posted December 31, 2004 personally I think I would be a good pic. Im faithful, honest, caring, trust-worthy I play guitar, cook, clean and i smell good Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FightingforGod Posted December 31, 2004 Share Posted December 31, 2004 ya smell good huh...well, i guess my vote goes to u then, well, u or phazz or micah Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phazzan Posted December 31, 2004 Share Posted December 31, 2004 [quote name='Raphael' date='Dec 30 2004, 02:17 PM'] [/quote] [quote]1. Who says I don't have those things? [/quote] I do. [quote]2. If I don't have the things women look for, and a woman still loves me, doesn't that say something powerful? [/quote] Absolutely. [quote]3. Women look for security, honesty, trustworthiness, humor, etc...nice looks, money, and power may get initial intention, but the need for those things falls away as true personality comes out to play.[/quote] Yes, Raphy, security with a big $. Not always. Sometimes security can mean a stable job, blah blah blah. Above all, women unconsciously seek out partners based on what's best for their children. If he has good genes (i.e. athletic type, intelligent), she will be se.xually attracted to him hence want to breed. If he has power, wealth etc, she will be attracted because he will give their children a better future. If he is honest, trustworthy, secure etc he will make a good husband and father. All these factors play a role in the pairing up of lifelong partners. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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