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I am 19, dating a girl that is 17........is this bad becasue she is underage? we are a very good catholic couple(at least i think so...and i think God does too...haha)  

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i have been notorious for not having enough poll answers.....so i went for broke on this one........hahahaha

but honestly what ya all think?

God bless ya and keep ya,

Posted
:unsure: i don't see a problem with it
Thy Geekdom Come
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No, it's not, so long as you don't do anything illegal.

Posted

my DH and I are 2 years apart...I was 17 when he was 19. no biggie. just, as raphael says...don't do anything illegal ;-)

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There shouldnt be anything wrong with it...as long as you are not involved in heloing with the ministry that is ministering to her in the church

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I say don't date BUT that's just me right now... ^_^

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as one of my friends said. Who cares about age, as long as there is love. but hey if you want to bring up the issue of age, call iacobus in here... he is in love with a 249ish year old

Thy Geekdom Come
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[quote name='JazzforJesus' date='Feb 3 2005, 06:33 PM'] as one of my friends said. Who cares about age, as long as there is love. but hey if you want to bring up the issue of age, call iacobus in here... he is in love with a 249ish year old [/quote]
**** isn't 249!

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im speaking of Jane

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jane austen the one thats dead

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way to give away his secret guys

Anywyas, even should you have sex its still legally ok.

Within the Church its no different from any other dating relationship.

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[quote name='crusader1234' date='Feb 3 2005, 06:51 PM'] Anywyas, even should you have sex its still legally ok.
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i thought it was illegal, i thought if one is older than 18 and the other is younger than its illegal.

well whatever, he shouldnt be having sex if he is a good catholic

franciscanheart
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[quote name='crusader1234' date='Feb 3 2005, 06:51 PM']Anywyas, even should you have sex its still legally ok.[/quote]
:blink:




ehem.




:unsure:








anyway.....
i think its okay if yall are both where yall should be mentally, emotionally and spiritually for it. i dont think the fact that she is not techinically legal should have anything to do with it. if she were 18 you wouldnt be questioning it and what you should really question, like I've already said, is whether or not the two of you are mentally, emotionally and spiritually ready.

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Its not statuatory rape unless she's 16 (I dont mean its ok from a Catholic perspective, I just mean that if he's wondering if its societally ok)

Posted

i dont think you should date... court.. but the age difference is ok. you wanna here something not ok? i had stalker who was 25 I am 14! that age difference is bad.it was so scary.

Posted (edited)

[quote name='crusader1234' date='Feb 3 2005, 05:51 PM'] Anywyas, even should you have sex its still legally ok. 

Within the Church its no different from any other dating relationship. [/quote]
what kind of comment is that?

legal or illegal, sex outside of marriage is ILLEGAL by heaven law. You'll pay serious time for it. ;)

I doubt anyone thought it was because he was asking for "society" standards anyway. This is a Catholic forum.

Edited by jmjtina
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[quote name='karin' date='Feb 3 2005, 09:05 PM'] i dont think you should date... court.. but the age difference is ok. you wanna here something not ok? i had stalker who was 25 I am 14! that age difference is bad.it was so scary. [/quote]
:o

I'm sorry! that's so messed up! prayers!

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Be Pure and all will be Good with God.

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i have same issues about underage but i am trying not to worry about it. me being 19 and my friend back at home that im starting to like is 16... would yall say that is to far

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