How do I get rid of my current spiritual director?

[Pio Nono]

JMJ
8/28 - Twenty-second Sunday
[quote name='Extra ecclesiam nulla salus' date='Aug 27 2005, 03:22 PM']that would really mean. the guy's a priest just stick with it. but if you do deciede to change you have to tell him

what is the problem with him, if you don't mind me asking?
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Bad advice.

Spiritual directors are trained so that they can "take" anything you tell them. If some of his personal character traits are getting in the way of authentically reading the movements of the Holy Spirit in your life, then the best thing for you to do is [b]tell him that[/b]. If he gets flustered because you think he's ugly, or because you hate his crooked teeth, or because it's a woman and not a man, or WHATEVER reason, then change directors. Trust me, spiritual directors do not mind if you come to them and say, "I think I'm going to change directors." Ask him to recommend you a new one, but whatever you do, [i][b]don't be silent about it.[/b][/i]