sidemunch88 Posted June 5, 2006 Share Posted June 5, 2006 you know that pain you get when you are stressed out beyond that of which you can handle? well i have that right now here are the reasons 1 School 2 Girls 3 Parents 4 Drugs/Beer 5 Stupid things i do 6 Stupid things people say I thought that #4 would help keep my mind off these things i was right for about 4 hours Then i have all bad grades because i am stupid and I am scared because what am i going to do for the rest of my life? work at BurgerKing? Well i just want to say i am sorry to every one who i have caused pain and I want to End it all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrossCuT Posted June 5, 2006 Share Posted June 5, 2006 [size=1][color="330000"]End it all? I know which part you should. You have expressed you understand what it is that makes you this way, but I dont know why you dont just stop. [/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uruviel Posted June 5, 2006 Share Posted June 5, 2006 [quote name='hayden' post='997357' date='Jun 5 2006, 10:54 AM'] you know that pain you get when you are stressed out beyond that of which you can handle? well i have that right now here are the reasons 1 School 2 Girls 3 Parents 4 Drugs/Beer 5 Stupid things i do 6 Stupid things people say I thought that #4 would help keep my mind off these things i was right for about 4 hours Then i have all bad grades because i am stupid and I am scared because what am i going to do for the rest of my life? work at BurgerKing? Well i just want to say i am sorry to every one who i have caused pain and I want to End it all. [/quote] Don't pity yourself, its a rough part in your life right now, and every human being has them. They are tough, and they are painful, and we do things in them that we regret. Your not stupid, you've never caused me pain so I can't say anything like it's ok or accept your apology. What you need to do is sit down, don't say a word, and think. Think for a long time, then when you finish that, I want you to pray. The best thing we have in really hard times or in challenging times is God and grace. To overcome school, you need to pray for the grace that God will help you in everything you do, tell him you can do nothing without Him. Start trying to devote your time to prayer and school, always keep your mind on your tasks, your duties as a son, brother, student, and always try to do Gods wil. And for #6, don't pay attention to ppl's comments about you. Everyone says that. When they say stupid things about you or someone else their only hurting themselves, they are driven by pride and ignorance. Say a prayer for them. Personally what I try to do is take the insults, and feed off of them. See in insults they tell you where your wrong, but in compliments they tell you where your right, and I don't want to focus on where i'm right because what's the point in rejoicing in my own glory? I feed of insults and use them as best I can for correcting what I was insulted for. Ok ok you got me into a long post and it was :coagulated milk: ey. I'll pray for you though. and really try to not pity yourself. [quote]You have expressed you understand what it is that makes you this way, but I dont know why you dont just stop.[/quote] It's not that easy, it's not where you can just say "I don't like this about me, there i changed it" It's hard. And it takes allot of time, depending on the seriousness of the situation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrossCuT Posted June 5, 2006 Share Posted June 5, 2006 [size=1][color="330000"]Well, what I am talking about has nothing to do with is personality. And can be changed very easily. The process after might be hard, but the means to do it are very easy. [/color][/size] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uruviel Posted June 5, 2006 Share Posted June 5, 2006 I can't say, because I don't know very much about what he reffers to, I mean i don't know how bad he has it. From what he says it sounds like it would take time to do it and grace to fix it. But, if its not very serious he may be able to just do it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest T-Bone Posted June 5, 2006 Share Posted June 5, 2006 Give him a break. Sound's like Matt's depressed. Telling depressed people to "Happy up!" or that it's easy to change doesn't help anything! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uruviel Posted June 5, 2006 Share Posted June 5, 2006 exactly. Thats what I'm trying to say sort of... but in that long post up there I said more than just that, I think I meant that too... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heavenseeker Posted June 5, 2006 Share Posted June 5, 2006 you should have known that #4 would have only made it worse Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uruviel Posted June 5, 2006 Share Posted June 5, 2006 you obviously haven't been stuck in a hole like that before. Despiration is very high and you'd be willing to try anything really to make you feel, well feel like your high like what those do to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ardillacid Posted June 5, 2006 Share Posted June 5, 2006 #1: school is over in like 4 days #2: be gay like bobs #3: your parents are not as bad as some #4: don't drink drugs or do beer #5: don't do things #6: stick your head in the sand it is warm Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uruviel Posted June 5, 2006 Share Posted June 5, 2006 thanks Tom I'm sure that helps. It was funny, but not much help. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heavenseeker Posted June 5, 2006 Share Posted June 5, 2006 that was retarded Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uruviel Posted June 5, 2006 Share Posted June 5, 2006 mmhmm. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heavenseeker Posted June 5, 2006 Share Posted June 5, 2006 i think i can hear that sound now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uruviel Posted June 5, 2006 Share Posted June 5, 2006 good. Just go "ahh huh" with your mouth closed! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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