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Catholictothecore

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[quote name='Catholictothecore' post='1189149' date='Feb 8 2007, 10:47 PM']
Girls, I don't know what to think of you in this vast, precarious dance that is the start of courtly interaction. It drives me crazy, how complicated and...weird it is. Any ideas on what I could do, or NOT do, as the case may be to just let a well-founded friendship grow strong?

Basically, how do you be "just friends" with someone your attracted to? Girls, how would you want to be treated as "just friends" if the guy is interested in you, and who may suspect you're interested in him?

Thanks.
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Umm...I'm bringing this up again because it wasn't just me who asked. J.P. asked the same thing. So, here's the "core" question. And, I think it's a good one, because it's just abotu wanting to let a friendship grow close, if possible, and strong.

That's not a bad thing. I've had a lot less praisable desires to get know women.

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xTrishaxLynnx

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[quote name='Catholictothecore' date='Feb 8 2007, 10:47 PM']
Basically, how do you be "just friends" with someone your attracted to? Girls, how would you want to be treated as "just friends" if the guy is interested in you, and who may suspect you're interested in him?[/quote]

I'm not sure exactly what you would be having trouble with, but I think that since you are attracted to her as more than friends, you will have to be careful not to step over any lines. What I mean is, don't make her uncomfortable by being overly flirtatious. If you're gonna hang out, do so in a group.. she'll most likely feel the most at ease in that situation, and you two can still get to know each other. Who knows, maybe once she gets to know you better she might also find herself attracted to you. I think a friendship is a great place to form a relationship from.

Is that any help? :idontknow:

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J.P.

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Yea thats great help.

Thanks gals. I think that my bud will appreciate this very much.

And yea, it was kinda cute that she covered his eyes and the whole dillio. Very cute indeed!

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[quote name='xTrishaxLynnx' post='1189593' date='Feb 9 2007, 02:11 PM']
Well I say...
A and C seem like the best route;
B could go along with either.
D is the backup plan if you try A, B, and C and they don't work out.
E is backup if you chicken out and can't try A, B, or C.
The first part of F is true, the second is not.
G is a given.
H and I aren't real answers, so I refuse to speculate on them. :disguise:
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MissScripture

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[quote name='xTrishaxLynnx' post='1189599' date='Feb 9 2007, 01:13 PM']
That's what I would do. :blush: :rolleyes: :P: :ninja:

I can give advice all day long, following that advice myself is another story. :disguise:
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YOU? Run and hide? NO WAY! :o

:hehehe:



(No, Trisha, you CANNOT climb out the window! [/inside joke])


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toledo_jesus

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is this what passes for a thread on Phatmass now? I've only been gone for like a month. What is this mushy slop?

And the answer to your poll is E. If you see her around a few times and the successive encounters go as smoothly as the first, then it is the time for numbers.

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Oh no. People are talking about crushes. Horror of horrors. And they are giving compliments. We have to stop them.



Okay, maybe I should just scold you for charity here? :idontknow:

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xTrishaxLynnx

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[quote name='XIX' post='1189974' date='Feb 9 2007, 04:17 PM']
:lol_pound:
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:mobile: :P:

That was cute, by the way. I think it made my day. ^_^

[quote name='MissScripture' post='1190174' date='Feb 9 2007, 05:52 PM']
YOU? Run and hide? NO WAY! :o

:hehehe:
(No, Trisha, you CANNOT climb out the window! [/inside joke])
:ninja:
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Yeah, not me right? :paperbag:

I might sneak out while you're answering! ;) </insidejoke>

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ronyodish

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[quote]why aren't there more guys that think like this?!

sweet guys are awesome ;) [/quote]

Aww, thanks Mariah :) sweet girls are likewise awesome! God bless you.


[quote]God Bless the Opposite Sex is the single greatest expression that I have ever heart btw. Kudos to the guy who started this thread.[/quote]

Thanks JP. I'm so glad God created Eve.


[quote]What is this mushy slop?[/quote]

Now Toledo, can a guy really help it if he finds that girls are so beautifully made? I don't know, I'm just amazed at this creature of God that we call woman.

Rony

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[quote name='Rony Odish' post='1190511' date='Feb 10 2007, 02:39 AM']
Now Toledo, can a guy really help it if he finds that girls are so beautifully made? I don't know, I'm just amazed at this creature of God that we call woman.
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Wow-ee! Thingss like that make me love being a woman. :lol: :saint:

Men who recognize true beauty are wonderful! ^_^

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