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A Positive Spin On The Official Thread To Ask The Opposite Sex


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[quote name='mariahLVzJP2' post='1194897' date='Feb 14 2007, 12:30 PM']
This thread rocks! :) Happy St. Valentine's Day to you all :love:
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Indeed. Happy St. Valentines day to you all. :D:

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i saw my ex-boyfriend today.

i had to meet with him because he borrowed something of mine when we were still together. before i left, i wished him well with everything in his life (and school) and then he said, "we're still going to talk and email."

I don't really talk to exes because I figure "whats the point?!" Do you guys think its a good idea to keep in touch with an ex? and why would my ex still want to talk to me? (i had to break up with him because he didn't seem to care about us anymore and most likely he still doesn't). I'm completely over our relationship because I know I deserve better ^_^ but im just wondering.

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[quote name='Rony Odish' post='1187235' date='Feb 7 2007, 03:42 AM']Hi everyone,

I'm sorry but the other official thread on asking the opposite sex is full of complaints, and so I'm starting a positive thread instead. Only ask questions that elevate the dignity of the opposite sex.

Here are my 3 questions for girls:

1. Why do girls giggle? it is soooo beautiful!

2. Why do girls smirk, they kind of make a half smile and quickly turn away when you look at them? It is incredibly beautiful!

3. Why do girls make such soft voice sounds when they talk? That is veeery attractive!

God bless the female sex!

Rony[/quote]



better than that, why do they sneeze so cute?

AAHHHHHH-choo!

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MissScripture

[quote name='mariahLVzJP2' post='1197196' date='Feb 16 2007, 06:51 PM']i saw my ex-boyfriend today.

i had to meet with him because he borrowed something of mine when we were still together. before i left, i wished him well with everything in his life (and school) and then he said, "we're still going to talk and email."

I don't really talk to exes because I figure "whats the point?!" Do you guys think its a good idea to keep in touch with an ex? and why would my ex still want to talk to me? (i had to break up with him because he didn't seem to care about us anymore and most likely he still doesn't). I'm completely over our relationship because I know I deserve better ^_^ but im just wondering.[/quote]
I know of a couple people who keep in touch with their exs, and what I've seen is not really healthy. I mean, maybe after a long time, or if it was sort of a mutual "our lives are going in different directions" type thing, but other than that, I think a lot of times it's not a clean enough break. It leaves too much connection and doesn't let people get over it. Then again, I could be totally wrong.

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cmotherofpirl

[quote name='Catholictothecore' post='1194010' date='Feb 13 2007, 06:38 PM']So...this is what I am "tempted" to say to her.

I know we met only recently, but I like you. I'm not saying anything more than that because we don't know each other that long. But...I think you like me to. At least, that's kinda what I've picked up from you. Am I wrong? (wait for a replay; if all goes well) Is there anything that would prevent us from going out to do something, either with the group or not (however you prefer) some time?

Girls?[/quote]
That would work for me :)

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[quote name='MissScripture' post='1197478' date='Feb 16 2007, 11:32 PM']I know of a couple people who keep in touch with their exs, and what I've seen is not really healthy. I mean, maybe after a long time, or if it was sort of a mutual "our lives are going in different directions" type thing, but other than that, I think a lot of times it's not a clean enough break. It leaves too much connection and doesn't let people get over it. Then again, I could be totally wrong.[/quote]
so true! great points.

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Proud2BCatholic139

[quote name='mariahLVzJP2' post='1197196' date='Feb 16 2007, 06:51 PM']i saw my ex-boyfriend today.

i had to meet with him because he borrowed something of mine when we were still together. before i left, i wished him well with everything in his life (and school) and then he said, "we're still going to talk and email."

I don't really talk to exes because I figure "whats the point?!" Do you guys think its a good idea to keep in touch with an ex? and why would my ex still want to talk to me? (i had to break up with him because he didn't seem to care about us anymore and most likely he still doesn't). I'm completely over our relationship because I know I deserve better ^_^ but im just wondering.[/quote]

My best advice I can ever give you on this subject, is let it be for several months, then, keep in touch. For example, say hi every so often, but leave it at that. If he wants to hang out, think about it, but I wouldn't recommend it, unless if it is in a group. Trust me on this. :)

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Proud2BCatholic139

[quote name='mariahLVzJP2' post='1197196' date='Feb 16 2007, 06:51 PM']i saw my ex-boyfriend today.

i had to meet with him because he borrowed something of mine when we were still together. before i left, i wished him well with everything in his life (and school) and then he said, "we're still going to talk and email."

I don't really talk to exes because I figure "whats the point?!" Do you guys think its a good idea to keep in touch with an ex? and why would my ex still want to talk to me? (i had to break up with him because he didn't seem to care about us anymore and most likely he still doesn't). I'm completely over our relationship because I know I deserve better ^_^ but im just wondering.[/quote]

My best advice I can ever give you on this subject, is let it be for several months, then, keep in touch. For example, say hi every so often, but leave it at that. If he wants to hang out, think about it, but I wouldn't recommend it, unless if it is in a group. Trust me on this. :)

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[quote name='XIX' post='1189485' date='Feb 9 2007, 10:07 AM']Aite, here's a question. Not a positive or negative spin or anything, just a question.

Say I meet a girl. I find her kinda cute. :blush: I find that I REALLY enjoy talking with her for the hour that I've known her. Do I

a) Ask for her number in the most casual way possible.
b) Say i'd like to keep in touch with her because I enjoyed her company.
c) Flirt and ask for her number. (assuming I know what flirtation is)
d) Run away and hide.
e) Wait til I've seen her a few times, even though there's a good chance I'll never see her again.
f) You are such a...guy!! You have no good ideas, and here's what you should do! :P:
g) You are a gooseball.
h) Other
i) I refuse to speculate!

Please note that I trust no male opinions on this topic. Thanks! :D:[/quote]
Wow, the only time XIX picking "b" actually is good.

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tinytherese

I'm sorry if this has already been mentioned before, I didn't want to go through the entire thread to see if anyone else mentioned any of these books.

Wild at Heart- a book about understanding the masculine soul and how men are called to use their gifts uniquely for God

Captivating- a book about understanding the feminine soul and is co-authored by the same author as the work mentioned above

Theology of His Body and Theology of Her Body by Jason Evert - came out not that long ago. I'd like to read them some time.

The Privilege of Being a Woman

The Authentic Catholic Woman

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princessgianna

what are we to discuss? :idontknow:

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