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Q On Flirting


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[quote name='God Conquers' post='1283516' date='May 29 2007, 03:23 PM']Yes yes yes.

So many people are dishonest about this and it's ridiculous!

You don't know anything about someone when you flirt with them initially! How could you know they are holy!? (unless you're flirting @ adoration?)

There's a misconception that it's not OK to look attractive. There's also a misconception that people are either attractive already, or will never be attractive. Not true.

Everyone finds different things attractive. But if you are a girl or a guy who wants to be noticed it's really easy. Just be clean, wear nice clothes and have a "spirit of openness" to others. If you are uptight, you will appear uptight, and people won't talk to you because they can sense that they won't get anywhere.

You can do it! Be a flirt![/quote]


Random. He totally flirted with me before he had seen me at all.


:mellow:

I love Phatmass. :mellow:

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LouisvilleFan

[quote name='Terra Firma' post='1283316' date='May 29 2007, 10:10 AM']I think GC has it right. Physical attractiveness is #1 when it comes to flirting. I think it's probably #1 for girls too. Not that I won't flirt with a guy who isn't my top choice in terms of attractiveness, but I would say that I wouldn't flirt with a guy who wasn't in the range of acceptableness. Flirting is a sign of attraction, pure and simple.[/quote]

Ya know, I find that personality is more important when it comes to flirting. Ever tried flirting with an attractive girl who had no personality? It doesn't work. Flirting is all about personality... flirting is impossible without it. Good looks are icing on the cake, and granted, you probably won't take a relationship deeper than flirting if you aren't physically attracted to a person. But flirting itself does not require physical attraction.

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[quote name='God Conquers' post='1280301' date='May 24 2007, 02:52 AM']You COULD say "there's no real reason", but the truth is that guys flirt with girls if they find them attractive. Bottom line. It's not shallow, for there are more than just looks that attract a guy to a girl, but physical attractiveness is the #1 thing.[/quote]

Looks will get my attention, but character and personality keep it.

And before someone gets upset because I said looks first, remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Each man has his own idea of what's beautiful and what's not.

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