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[quote name='Paddington' post='1777883' date='Feb 10 2009, 11:30 AM']cuz they are ignorant of the law.[/quote]
c[font="Arial"]ra[/font]p hurts, yo.

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[quote name='sweens8403' post='1777862' date='Feb 10 2009, 11:12 AM']Looks will get my attention, but character and personality keep it.

And before someone gets upset because I said looks first, remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Each man has his own idea of what's beautiful and what's not.[/quote]

But you can't flirt with looks. You flirt with people, which involves personality. I'm convinced flirting is based on personality more than looks. Of course, if you're flirting because you like a person "that way," then it obviously involves physical attraction too, but a lot of times guys flirt with girls just because we're in the same space and that's just what you do. Cute bartender or waitress? Flirt. She flirts back... everyone has fun... and you pay a fat tip and come back next week. If she doesn't flirt back, it isn't fun and you don't come back no matter how cute she was.

To contrast, "checking out" a girl is based purely on physical attraction and, unless it quickly leads to taking some iniative in the flirting stage, doesn't involve any form of friendship/relationship either. That's why flirting is inherently good and "checking out" is inherently disordered.... to throw down a little theology o' da body on ya. :)

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[quote name='rachael' post='1777875' date='Feb 10 2009, 07:25 AM']ok, why do so many men find it necessary to poke? :unsure:[/quote]
The only person I know who viciously pokes people is a girl. :mellow:

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[quote name='tinytherese' post='1778128' date='Feb 10 2009, 04:50 PM']I don't know how to flirt. :([/quote]
:unsure: you just do it.

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[quote name='rachael' post='1778352' date='Feb 10 2009, 08:01 PM']:unsure: you just do it.[/quote]

Establishing eye contact is a necessary prerequisite. And a smile, because it's always good to smile, especially in those unfriendly Yankee towns like Pittsburgh and New York City. Remember, the second-shortest verse in the Bible is, "Jesus smiled."

Then talk some smack about their baseball team.

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[quote name='LouisvilleFan' post='1779600' date='Feb 12 2009, 09:51 AM']Establishing eye contact is a necessary prerequisite. And a smile, because it's always good to smile, especially in those unfriendly Yankee towns like Pittsburgh and New York City. Remember, the second-shortest verse in the Bible is, "Jesus smiled."

Then talk some smack about their baseball team.[/quote]
I've always heard that Southern girls were a lot better with flirting than Northern girls. Just saying. :saint:

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[quote name='missionseeker' post='1779608' date='Feb 12 2009, 11:08 AM']That's why got 'em coming from the great northern wasteland :mellow:[/quote]
iawtc.

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[quote name='rachael' post='1779601' date='Feb 12 2009, 09:52 AM']I've always heard that Southern girls were a lot better with flirting than Northern girls. Just saying. :saint:[/quote]

I wholeheartedly agree. And they sound nicer too. Had this waitress at Cracker Barrel a few weeks ago from northwestern Tennessee. That area of the South may have the best accent anywhere. :cool:

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