the171 Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 Have you thought about doing a bridal shower where everyone brings a gift from your entrance registry? A lot of girls have done this and it really helps. It's also a nice way to celebrate with family and friends.
FiatVoluntasTua Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 @the171: It would be a wonderful way for friends and family to support the entrant - with small gifts or with their presence at a gathering. I have heard of an "engagement party" for an aspiring nun, but I have never heard of a "bridal shower." Great idea!
OnlySunshine Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 [quote name='HopefulBride' timestamp='1332792447' post='2408845'] Question. I am supposed to get sandals that are Birkenstock or Birkenstock-like. Any suggestions? The Birkies that I see are waaaaay out of my league. So far I'm doing well with my $250 limit. Getting the Birkies would blow them out of the water though (even if they were on sale) [/quote] I hate paying a bunch of money for shoes. Some manufacturers act like they are gold or something. I found a few links for you to look at. These sandals look like Birkenstocks and are made for comfort: [url="http://www.famousfootwear.com/Shopping/ProductDetails.aspx?p=02746&pg=5143723"]Naturalizer Tan Valentina Sandals[/url] [url="http://www.famousfootwear.com/Shopping/ProductDetails.aspx?p=92820&pg=1025944"]Natural Soul by Naturalizer -- Darcy sandals[/url] [url="http://www.famousfootwear.com/Shopping/ProductDetails.aspx?p=02743&pg=5143723"]Naturalizer Black Valentina Sandals[/url] [url="http://www.famousfootwear.com/Shopping/ProductDetails.aspx?p=19960&pg=5141674"]Aerosole Screen Saver Sandals[/url] [url="http://www.famousfootwear.com/Shopping/ProductDetails.aspx?p=72378&pg=1022669"]Eurostep Scribe Sandals ($25!)[/url] [url="http://www.famousfootwear.com/Shopping/ProductDetails.aspx?p=74084&pg=1022665"]Naturalizer Monteda Sandals ($25!)[/url] [url="http://www.jcpenney.com/jcp/X6.aspx?GrpTyp=PRD&ItemID=1e7d755&DeptID=70731&CatID=81531&SO=1&SelDim=4294957900~&CatSel=4294934062|comfort+sandals&NOffset=0&Ne=4294957900+3+14+8+1031+18+1545&x5view=1&N=4294934062&Nao=0&PSO=1&bcCat=3&CmCatId=70731|81531"]Clarks Rise Leather Sandals[/url] [url="http://www.sierratradingpost.com/rogue-reedie-sandals-for-women~p~2149k/?filterString=womens-casual-sandals~d~496%2F&colorFamily=02"]Rogue Reedie Sandals ($29!)[/url]
HopefulBride Posted March 27, 2012 Author Posted March 27, 2012 [quote name='the171' timestamp='1332816558' post='2409001'] Have you thought about doing a bridal shower where everyone brings a gift from your entrance registry? A lot of girls have done this and it really helps. It's also a nice way to celebrate with family and friends. [/quote] I have thought about that and I am still struggling with the "don't burden folks voice in my head" I am working very hard this Lent to get over this. The Lord has been more than patient with me as I work to get out of my shell more and more and "man up" when it comes to asking for help. I tend to worry about whether or not the person can afford to help and all of that jazz instead of just trusting the Lord. One of my girlfriends asked for the list and I think I might share it with her and let her know what I was able to get. [quote name='MaterMisericordiae' timestamp='1332821834' post='2409028'] I hate paying a bunch of money for shoes. Some manufacturers act like they are gold or something. I found a few links for you to look at. These sandals look like Birkenstocks and are made for comfort: [url="http://www.famousfootwear.com/Shopping/ProductDetails.aspx?p=02746&pg=5143723"]Naturalizer Tan Valentina Sandals[/url] [url="http://www.famousfootwear.com/Shopping/ProductDetails.aspx?p=92820&pg=1025944"]Natural Soul by Naturalizer -- Darcy sandals[/url] [url="http://www.famousfootwear.com/Shopping/ProductDetails.aspx?p=02743&pg=5143723"]Naturalizer Black Valentina Sandals[/url] [url="http://www.famousfootwear.com/Shopping/ProductDetails.aspx?p=19960&pg=5141674"]Aerosole Screen Saver Sandals[/url] [url="http://www.famousfootwear.com/Shopping/ProductDetails.aspx?p=72378&pg=1022669"]Eurostep Scribe Sandals ($25!)[/url] [url="http://www.famousfootwear.com/Shopping/ProductDetails.aspx?p=74084&pg=1022665"]Naturalizer Monteda Sandals ($25!)[/url] [url="http://www.jcpenney.com/jcp/X6.aspx?GrpTyp=PRD&ItemID=1e7d755&DeptID=70731&CatID=81531&SO=1&SelDim=4294957900~&CatSel=4294934062|comfort+sandals&NOffset=0&Ne=4294957900+3+14+8+1031+18+1545&x5view=1&N=4294934062&Nao=0&PSO=1&bcCat=3&CmCatId=70731|81531"]Clarks Rise Leather Sandals[/url] [url="http://www.sierratradingpost.com/rogue-reedie-sandals-for-women~p~2149k/?filterString=womens-casual-sandals~d~496%2F&colorFamily=02"]Rogue Reedie Sandals ($29!)[/url] [/quote] Thanks for these suggestions MM. I actually have to get a particular style (this one) [img]http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/81vUeYNlQFL._SL1500_.jpg[/img] I believe the betula sandals which are also by Birkenstock are way way way waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay more affordable (for the love of all that is Holy I do not know why there is such a big price difference but oh well) I will keep looking and keep you guys updated.
Strictlyinkblot Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 Have you had any luck on Ebay or Amazon? I know its a bit dodgy but you might get lucky.
HopefulBride Posted March 27, 2012 Author Posted March 27, 2012 [quote name='Strictlyinkblot' timestamp='1332854164' post='2409104'] Have you had any luck on Ebay or Amazon? I know its a bit dodgy but you might get lucky. [/quote] I have looked at Ebay but I'm terrified by the idea that I'll end up with some counterfeit or just a scammer. My siblings and my parents are getting me all of my shoes that are needed so I'm trying to make sure I don't' steer them wrong. They've charged me with looking for what I need and letting them know when it's time to pay. The good news is I have some time, my biggest worry was the snow boots and as far as the coat goes, I have some time. The NM says I can use my grey one as long as I need... I am going to keep looking so please keep the suggestions coming!
HopefulBride Posted March 31, 2012 Author Posted March 31, 2012 [img]http://s.stpost.com/eccStoreFront/product_images/4410N/f_4410N_5.jpg[/img] These came in today! I am sooo excited! Can't wait for my 4.99 nun shoes to come in p.s. they are so warm
Lisa Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 (edited) 1. Have you bought thermals yet? Sorry if you have, I couldn't remember. Walmart had a $2 sale today! 2. It's only wool-blend, but this coat is seriously discounted: [url="http://www.meijer.com/s/hailey-jeans-co-womens-full-length-wool-blend-coat/_/R-200183?CAWELAID=1051374410&cmpid=goobase"]http://www.meijer.co...0&cmpid=goobase[/url] P.S., if you like it, PM me... I have an idea! Edited March 31, 2012 by Lisa
OnlySunshine Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 (edited) [quote name='HopefulBride' timestamp='1332853479' post='2409101'] I have thought about that and I am still struggling with the "don't burden folks voice in my head" I am working very hard this Lent to get over this. The Lord has been more than patient with me as I work to get out of my shell more and more and "man up" when it comes to asking for help. I tend to worry about whether or not the person can afford to help and all of that jazz instead of just trusting the Lord. One of my girlfriends asked for the list and I think I might share it with her and let her know what I was able to get. Thanks for these suggestions MM. I actually have to get a particular style (this one) I believe the betula sandals which are also by Birkenstock are way way way waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay more affordable (for the love of all that is Holy I do not know why there is such a big price difference but oh well) I will keep looking and keep you guys updated. [/quote] Here are some Birkenstocks that are deeply discounted! [url="http://www.betterwalking.com/products/department/women/milano/black-birko-flor/3479"]Birkenstock Milano Sandals in Black[/url] (nevermind! just realized they have very little in selection of size) Edited March 31, 2012 by MaterMisericordiae
OnlySunshine Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 I know you said you were concerned about eBay, but I found a seller who has 100% feedback with over 250 transactions. They are selling [url="http://www.ebay.com/itm/BIRKENSTOCK-Womens-Milano-38-7-US-Black-Leather-Comfortable-Sandal-Nice-120-/251030937228?pt=US_Women_s_Shoes&hash=item3a729c1e8c"]Birkenstock Milano Sandals[/url] in your size for $40 plus $11.40 for shipping.
CatherineM Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 [img]http://a1.zassets.com/images/z/2/6/2/9/9/1/262991-p-DETAILED.jpg[/img]These are on Zappos for $80
CatherineM Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 You might try [url="http://www.sierratradingpost.com/birkenstock-milano-sandals-for-men-and-women~p~2273h/?filterString=s~birkenstock%2F&colorFamily=01"]http://www.sierratradingpost.com/birkenstock-milano-sandals-for-men-and-women~p~2273h/?filterString=s~birkenstock%2F&colorFamily=01[/url] They have the Milanos for $65
OnlySunshine Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 [quote name='CatherineM' timestamp='1333165748' post='2410954'] You might try [url="http://www.sierratradingpost.com/birkenstock-milano-sandals-for-men-and-women~p~2273h/?filterString=s~birkenstock%2F&colorFamily=01"]http://www.sierratra...&colorFamily=01[/url] They have the Milanos for $65 [/quote] Unfortunately, though, she needs a size 7 and these are size 5 USA. I keep finding the same problem.
CatherineM Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 [quote name='MaterMisericordiae' timestamp='1333166392' post='2410961'] Unfortunately, though, she needs a size 7 and these are size 5 USA. I keep finding the same problem. [/quote] I wear size 13-14, so I don't even try to find shoes in women's sizes. About the only dress shoes I can wear are ones designed for drag queens. I'm not really the red paten leather pump type.
OnlySunshine Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 [quote name='HopefulBride' timestamp='1332855815' post='2409117'] I have looked at Ebay but I'm terrified by the idea that I'll end up with some counterfeit or just a scammer. My siblings and my parents are getting me all of my shoes that are needed so I'm trying to make sure I don't' steer them wrong. They've charged me with looking for what I need and letting them know when it's time to pay. The good news is I have some time, my biggest worry was the snow boots and as far as the coat goes, I have some time. The NM says I can use my grey one as long as I need... I am going to keep looking so please keep the suggestions coming! [/quote] Here are some Birkies for $65. They are like the Betula sandals, in that they are made by Birkenstock, but they are different style. It looks exactly the same and they have them in your size. [url="http://www.beanesindianclothing.com/birkenstock-tatami-nebraska-sandals-mocha-or-black-all-sizes/"]Birkenstock Tatami Nebraska Sandals[/url]
OnlySunshine Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 [quote name='HopefulBride' timestamp='1332855815' post='2409117'] I have looked at Ebay but I'm terrified by the idea that I'll end up with some counterfeit or just a scammer. My siblings and my parents are getting me all of my shoes that are needed so I'm trying to make sure I don't' steer them wrong. They've charged me with looking for what I need and letting them know when it's time to pay. The good news is I have some time, my biggest worry was the snow boots and as far as the coat goes, I have some time. The NM says I can use my grey one as long as I need... I am going to keep looking so please keep the suggestions coming! [/quote] If the above doesn't work, try these: [url="http://www.birkenstockexpress.com/Products/Style.cfm/collection.Birkis/style.Aruba/id.300320122116-314124"]Birki's Aruba Sandals ($70)[/url] [url="http://www.foxvalleybirkenstock.com/birki-s-115/birki-s-women-s-125/birki-s-aruba-basic-black-1987.html"]Birki's Aruba Sandals (same price as above from different store)[/url]
OnlySunshine Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 [quote name='HopefulBride' timestamp='1332855815' post='2409117'] I have looked at Ebay but I'm terrified by the idea that I'll end up with some counterfeit or just a scammer. My siblings and my parents are getting me all of my shoes that are needed so I'm trying to make sure I don't' steer them wrong. They've charged me with looking for what I need and letting them know when it's time to pay. The good news is I have some time, my biggest worry was the snow boots and as far as the coat goes, I have some time. The NM says I can use my grey one as long as I need... I am going to keep looking so please keep the suggestions coming! [/quote] Ok, HB, you are going to love this! I did some MAJOR searching for Birkenstock knockoffs and found an AMAZING deal! They are from Forever21 and are only [size=5][u][i][b]$20[/b][/i][/u][/size]!!! They are black and have your size!!! [url="http://www.forever21.com/Product/Product.aspx?BR=f21&Category=shoes&ProductID=2000038547&VariantID="]Leather Footbed Sandals[/url] I may buy some myself because they look really comfy!
Lisa Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 (edited) woot, MM!!!! You're like VS's personal shopping assistant Edited March 31, 2012 by Lisa
HopefulBride Posted March 31, 2012 Author Posted March 31, 2012 OH wow!!!! I woke up to the best ever! I have so many choices now. Thanks so much for your dilligence MM, I looked at the ebay item and the forever 21 one. I think I might go with the one on forever 21. Especially since the ebay item doesn't have a buy now option, I would totally forget to keep checking for bids. Milles Merci pham. I absolutely love PM and my pham
OnlySunshine Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 [quote name='Lisa' timestamp='1333192254' post='2411083'] woot, MM!!!! You're like VS's personal shopping assistant [/quote] [quote name='HopefulBride' timestamp='1333202668' post='2411114'] OH wow!!!! I woke up to the best ever! I have so many choices now. Thanks so much for your dilligence MM, I looked at the ebay item and the forever 21 one. I think I might go with the one on forever 21. Especially since the ebay item doesn't have a buy now option, I would totally forget to keep checking for bids. Milles Merci pham. I absolutely love PM and my pham [/quote] I totally love a great bargain. And you are so very welcome, HB. I know how trying it is to find something for a low price when you can't afford much. It was really bothering me that you couldn't find a pair of sandals for a good price. That part of me just wouldn't give up.
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