Phatmass Is Changing...

[kujo]

Hey phamily. I've been on Phatmass for about 2 years, admittedly not nearly as long or as diligently as some of you have been. Still, I think I have a pretty good idea of how things work around here. We play hard and we pray hard, right?

But lately, I've noticed this dark cloud over some of our threads and discussions. It seems like a lot of them end in bitter arguments and name calling. I don't know why this is, but it's making myself and a lot of others very uncomfortable. It seems like alot of us (myself included) have lost sight of Christian charity.

Anyway, I wanted to point this out for everyone to think about. Maybe I'm wrong, but I figure it's worth a try, ya know? I love all of you, even the ones that drive me !!!

In Christ's heart,
Kujo

[Ash Wednesday]

For what it's worth, election years are always real corkers here on Phatmass. You should have seen 2004!

[Lil Red]

+J.M.J.+
phatmass goes in cycles of being nice and happy vs. being unChristian and sarcastic and mean. it's worse around Lent and in election years.

i keep repeating to myself "This too shall pass"

thanks for the reminder

[dUSt]

As proof of the change happening, this is the first time the word "corkers" has ever been used on phatmass. Looks like it's down hill from here.

[kujo]

[quote name='Ash Wednesday' post='1531267' date='May 17 2008, 12:11 PM']For what it's worth, election years are always real corkers here on Phatmass. You should have seen 2004! [/quote]

That could be it...but you would think that holding people accountable for voting Catholic in elections wouldn't take on such a vehement, nasty character. Some people on here proudly proclaim that they are "queen B's" and sarcastic people...it just doesn't make sense.

I thought I remember something about people knowing we are Christians by our love for each other?

[Ash Wednesday]

[quote name='dust (the ultra-handsome' post='1531273' date='May 17 2008, 11:14 AM']As proof of the change happening, this is the first time the word "corkers" has ever been used on phatmass. Looks like it's down hill from here.[/quote]

Edited May 17, 2008 by Ash Wednesday

[kujo]

[quote name='dust (the ultra-handsome' post='1531273' date='May 17 2008, 12:14 PM']As proof of the change happening, this is the first time the word "corkers" has ever been used on phatmass. Looks like it's down hill from here.[/quote]

Haha

[Pontifex]

It's why I felt led to pray in front of the Eucharist for the phamily. If we have not love, we clang. Like St. Paul told us.

P-FEx

[Ash Wednesday]

[quote name='kujo' post='1531274' date='May 17 2008, 11:15 AM']That could be it...but you would think that holding people accountable for voting Catholic in elections wouldn't take on such a vehement, nasty character.[/quote]

It gets pretty ugly. In 04, John Kerry being the Dem nominee and pro-choice Catholic on top of it really created a lot of emotional charge in the discussions. And of course there's Bush, who is a real lightning rod himself. It hasn't gotten as bad.......yet.

This year because there is a political phorum, maybe it will change the dynamics of the boards for the better. Even if at least a little.

[Roamin Catholic]

[quote name='kujo' post='1531274' date='May 17 2008, 10:15 AM']Some people on here proudly proclaim that they are "queen B's" and sarcastic people...it just doesn't make sense.[/quote]


And what is soo wrong with being sarcastic?

[kujo]

[quote name='Roamin_Catholic' post='1531345' date='May 17 2008, 01:01 PM']And what is soo wrong with being sarcastic?[/quote]

There's a difference between being a sarcastic and being overly-sarcastic, to the point of just being rude and condescending. Certain people walk the line, others haven't seen it in years.

[Apotheoun]

[quote name='kujo' post='1531245' date='May 17 2008, 08:53 AM']Hey phamily. I've been on Phatmass for about 2 years, admittedly not nearly as long or as diligently as some of you have been. Still, I think I have a pretty good idea of how things work around here. We play hard and we pray hard, right?

But lately, I've noticed this dark cloud over some of our threads and discussions. It seems like a lot of them end in bitter arguments and name calling. I don't know why this is, but it's making myself and a lot of others very uncomfortable. It seems like alot of us (myself included) have lost sight of Christian charity.

Anyway, I wanted to point this out for everyone to think about. Maybe I'm wrong, but I figure it's worth a try, ya know? I love all of you, even the ones that drive me !!!

In Christ's heart,
Kujo[/quote]
Phatmass seems the same as always to me.

[dominicansoul]

I'm a newbie, so I don't really know what to compare... I am a bit surprised with some of the cussing and condescension. I may have said a few mean things to certain posters, but mostly it's me having to play defense to some serious un-called for rudeness! I know two wrongs don't make a right, so it's best to just ignore. But I have also witnessed the friendships and the humour and the laughs....

I do agree with you, though, that something must have changed, because the rudeness drove away a Nun!

[Kitty]

I've only been a member for a short time but most of the time I've felt like I've joined an Atheist forum, what with all this rudeness, disrespect, putting down and name calling.

[Roamin Catholic]

[quote name='kujo' post='1531356' date='May 17 2008, 11:05 AM']There's a difference between being a sarcastic and being overly-sarcastic, to the point of just being rude and condescending. Certain people walk the line, others haven't seen it in years.[/quote]


all true, and on the other side you have those that can't seem to understand what sarcasm is...It makes for some fun threads