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Seven Day Virtual Marriage Retreats

http://www.foryourmarriage.org/marriage-retreat-2018-marriage-school-life-love/

Day One: Marriage is a School of Life
Day Two: Marriage Lasts for Life
Day Three: Marriage Welcomes Life
Day Four: Marriage is a School of Love
Day Five: Marriage Reflects God’s Love
Day Six: Marriage Lives by God’s Law of Love
Day Seven: Marriage as a Domestic Church

 

 

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ALETEIA - FAULTS COMMITTED IN PRAYING THE ROSARY fault commonly committed in saying the Rosary is to have no intention other than that of getting it over with as quickly as possible. This is because so many look upon the Rosary as a burden, which weighs heavily upon them when it has not been said, especially when we have promised to say it regularly or have been told to say it as a penance more or less against our will.

Re the above, St Therese of Lisieux confessed that one of her biggest trials in Carmel was praying the Rosary.

The fault does not lay in having repugnance towards the Rosary - the fault is in the motivation: to feel repugnance and not care - alternatively, to feel repugnance but to care very much.  We most often do not have control over repugnances in the spiritual way, they simply are.  We do have control over what we do with that repugnance i.e. to desire not to have it.

It is not unusual  for repugnance towards a rather lengthy prayer like The Rosary and to want to get through it as quickly as possible.  No fault in that - to race through it therefore would be one's fault.  To strive against the fault and pray it with care despite repugnance would be a virtue............this does not mean that one prays it as slowly as possible.

It is not sinful to omit The Rosary.  It is sinful however to deliberately omit prayer in some form.  

It is all a matter of common sense.  AndSt. Albert in the Ancient Rule of Carmel stated 

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Chapter 24.

Here then are the few points I have written down to provide you with a standard of counduct to live up to; but our Lord, at his second coming will reward anyone who does more than he is obliged to do. See that the bounds of common sense are not exceeded, however, for common sense is the guide of the virtues.

 

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AVAILABLE FROM AMAZON AND ON KINDLE "Wisdom from the Christian Mystics"

 

'A Ground-breaking Spiritual Classic.' David Torkington's latest book, Wisdom from the Christian Mystics has already been described in superlatives by reviewers, even before it has been officially launched at the Athenaeum, Pall Mall. Kevin Grant, the former Editor in Chief of the Catholic Universe, former Managing Director of the Catholic Herald and former Master of the Catholic Writer's Guild simply called it, 'a masterpiece'. For a writer and a poet, who is so careful with words, it is remarkable that in his endorsement of the book he even suggests that the author could be canonized for writing it - hopefully not in the near future! We need to hear much more from a writer whose books have been declared mandatory reading by Sr Wendy Beckett. Usually such worthy books are beyond the comprehension of the ordinary punters in the pews, but not the books of this author.--Michael Winterbottom "The Catholic Universe "

David Torkington has written a delightfully sensitive account of how the mystics of the Christian tradition help lead us to God. Many Catholics, even very prayerful ones, are intimidated by the mere word "mystic." Torkington shows us that mystical writing is actually a singularly effective tool in imagining the Almighty. God is ineffable, which means He is so different from us that He cannot be described in words. Mystics have the courage to abandon normal categories of language so as to stretch their fingers closer to that which can never be touched. David Torkington has a genuine enthusiasm for the writings of mystics of many eras, and that passion is contagious. It makes him an excellent teacher. Torkington is a faithful guide into lesser-known but marvelously rich pastures. Warmly recommended.--Fr Erik Ross, O.P, Dominican Priest, publisher and translator

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"Wright deftly brings his subject matter to life in a refreshingly understandable approach to the New Evangelization. It will enliven your faith and transform you."—an Amazon review

Jesus the Evangelist is a transformative guide to becoming a better disciple through studying the words of Jesus. Allan Wright focuses on the life of Jesus and on the ways he evangelized among his disciples and followers. This book defines for Catholics what evangelization is while addressing how individuals can evangelize in their everyday lives, and how parishes can evangelize through the examples Jesus gave us.

 

 

 

 

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21 Ways to Pray

By Mark Herringshaw

"Prayer can be rich when it's simple and spontaneous. In fact, we can pray anywhere, at any time. It doesn't require lofty language in a sacred space. All we need to do is see our ordinary moments as the perfect occasions for communicating with God, then speak from our heart.

Take a few minutes to explore this gallery for some plain and simple ways to pray your way through an ordinary day.......".............More

 

 

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LOS ANGELES, CA (Catholic Online) - So where should you start?

It's important to first realize we are God's creations and part of being a believer is living a life as close to the Church's morals as possible.


When people think of Catholics, they should be thinking of loving people who reflect the same respect, love, kindness and wisdom revealed in the Bible.

We aren't perfect and we make mistakes but therein lies the importance of setting goals and spending a lifetime in an attempt to meet them.

The great thing about these goals are you can meet them and, as you mature, set and meet them again on deeper levels.

Please consider our top ten goals every Catholic should set for themselves:

1. Build a strong foundation

The Bible tells us to share our faith - but how can we share what we don't know?

It's important to understand what being Catholic is all about. What role does the Church play? What role do the Holy Trinity, saints, angels and Pope play?

Take time to delve deep and learn about the faith, then share the truth with friends, family and even complete strangers!

2. Be humble

You will never know everything written in the Bible, nor will you ever fully grasp the greatness of God.

This is nothing to be ashamed of - we are imperfect beings incapable of understanding, without a doubt, everything the Bible says.

Strive to remain humble. Offering accurate information is very different from parading around expecting everyone wants to be corrected.

Even if you are knowledgeable about some things, there are many others you don't fully understand. Don't let a little bit of knowledge get to your head!

This can be spread across several aspects of your life. Attempting to remain humble is a difficult struggle for most people so don't feel ashamed when you catch yourself prancing in pride. Just ask God for a new perspective and try to see your accomplishments for what they really are: A culmination of hard work on your part, knowledge learned from your boss, teacher or family member, and God's grace.

3. God is #1

No matter how hard or great life can get, we must never forget God is the Most High and He deserves our respect.

Thank God for the good days and pray for peace on the bad. Know that He is always here for us. When you get a job promotion, God was there. When you cried alone, God was there.

Through every circumstance, the Lord is present to help us work through it or be praised for his blessings.

He should remain the most important thing in our lives, so spent a moment each day to ask Him to fill your heart with longing for His warm embrace, peace, love, mercy, forgiveness and blessings.

4. Meet the dress code 
It's important for us to dress in the armor of God each day.

Like ancient knights, we must protect ourselves with the armor described in Ephesians 6:11, 14-18.

The passages read: "Put on the full armour of God so as to be able to resist the devil's tactics...So stand your ground, with truth a belt round your waist, and uprightness a breastplate, wearing for shoes on your feet the eagerness to spread the gospel of peace and always carrying the shield of faith so that you can use it to quench the burning arrows of the Evil One.

"And then you must take salvation as your helmet and the sword of the Spirit, that is, the word of God. In all your prayer and entreaty keep praying in the Spirit on every possible occasion. Never get tired of staying awake to pray for all God's holy people."

This armor will help protect you from the enemies' lies and the curses of the world. Mentally and spiritually don the armor each day and know you are loved and protected as one of God's beloved children.


5. Grow in faith

Faith is limitless.

We can always encourage our faith and the faith of those around us.

The Bible tells us to have faith. In fact, when Jesus raised Lazarus, he told St. Martha, "Have I not told you that if you believe you will see the glory of God?" (John 11:40)

God still produces miracles today - and it is through faith that we will witness them, just as St. Martha witnessed her brother being raised from the dead.

6. Learn key scriptures

Memorize a handful of verses from the Bible to help you when you encounter difficulties in your day-to-day life.

Knowing these verses by heart will help you remember what God's promises are during times of distress, joy, grief and anger.

Doing so also provides an opportunity to share the Word of God with friends, family, the faithful and unbelievers alike.

7. Stop judging and gossipping

The bottom line is simple: Only God has the power to judge us.

St. Mother Teresa left us with a wonderful quote on judgement, "If you judge people, you have no time to love them."

What has God called us to do? Love one another.

Pope Francis has told us again and again to learn to love and the biggest part of learning to do so is to stop judging what others do, stop talking about people behind their backs and to live life for ourselves.

How can we live a life of our own if we are too busy talking about the lives of others?

8. Learn to trust in the Lord

We often turn to the Lord in times of desperation.

The trick is to turn to Him always.

Before stress can take command of your body, ask God for peace. Refer to a Bible verse on peace, God's promises or a favorite parable.

Turning to the Lord first, rather than as a last resort, will change your life for the better. Trust in Him and you will see a change within yourself only He can bring.

9. Lead by example

Too few people understand there are eyes everywhere.

Whether those eyes belong to our friends, neighbors, family or children, they are always watching.

To be good Christians, it is our duty to live, to the best of our ability, in accordance to the Gospel. What good is teaching our children not to misbehave when we turn around and gossip all day on the phone?

Why bother to talk about respect to our spouses when we turn around and disrespect the people who irk us?

We need to hold ourselves accountable for our actions. When we hurt someone we need to take a look at why - then we need to correct the situation and our behavior.

This is difficult, particularly since it is easy to judge others but not so easy to find flaws in ourselves. It's time to stop offering excuses and take responsibility for our words and actions.

10. Learn to serve

Part of holding ourselves accountable is acknowledging the need to remain humble.

Humility helps us rearrange our priorities and frees time for us to help others.

Serving others is a crucial part of loving them. Look to St. Teresa of Calcutta as a prime example.

She was an amazing woman who served the community. She touched the lives of billions and her beautiful spirit will be remembered forever.

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St Vincent de Paul Society

Quotation for September 1st 2018

H E R E

“We belong to God by his grace. What else do we wish, then, but to please him? If we are contradicted, this is not surprising; what merit is there in not being crossed? And who is there that can escape it? For every little contradiction, should one stop doing good? Good which gives glory to God?”
– St. Vincent de Paul

– There is no such thing as a trouble-free life, devoid of conflict. When these situations do arise, Lord, provide me with the wisdom to view them as challenges rather than insurmountable obstacles.

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Sunday Mass Online

2nd Sept 2018

 

 

 

 

 

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(can't remember where following comes from i.e. the link) "You can add to this list smaller things: your judgmental neighbour who loudly tells you how often he helps out at church, your holier-than-thou relative who trumpets how often she reads the Bible, or that annoying guy at work who keeps telling you that belief in Jesus is sure to bring you amazing financial success.

There is a human and sinful side to religion since

religions are human organisations, and therefore prone to sin.

And frankly,

people within religious organisations know this better than those outside of them."

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Saint Irenaeus:

"The glory of God is man fully alive, and the life of man is the vision of God.

If the revelation of God through creation already brings life

to all living beings on the earth,

how much more will the manifestation

of the Father by the Word bring life to those who see God" (AH IV, 20, 7).

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QUOTATIONS

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ST VINCENT DE PAUL

"God raises up and humbles us, consoles and afflicts us, according as he sees us disposed to profit by these states(III:382).
 

“Men are so constituted that even the holiest are disposed to contradict each other.”
– St. Vincent de Paul

 

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