Dating

[RandomProddy]

[quote name='MorphRC' date='Aug 10 2004, 05:57 PM'] 5: Random, Has a tendency to take things out of context. [/quote]
This is true though I only seem to do it on this forum. Strange old me

[quote name='MorphRC' date='Aug 10 2004, 05:57 PM'] 6: Dont tell me to chill please. [/quote]

A picture tells a thousand words:

[img]http://cjwinnit.hopto.org/pictures/chillpill.jpg[/img]


[img]http://cjwinnit.hopto.org/pictures/smile.gif[/img]

Edited August 10, 2004 by RandomProddy

[Iacobus]

Do I date? Nope.

Will I ever date? Yes.

Will I use the canoe test? You bet. LOL!

The only reason I would date is to A) find out what I want in a future wife and B) see if the person I love is the person for me (canoe test).

And I would always use the canoe test. It means taking a canoe (and probly go with a group of people to prevent foolory doolory) and going out at least 5 or 10 miles and staying over nite for a day or two and paddling back in. You have to share the canoe with the person who you are testing. If you can manage to work together and canoe and aren't trying to kill each other after camping for a few days (not in the same tent, lol, you are in a group, lol, rember?) than you are workable. LOL!

Warning to all females, the question from the mouth of Iacobus could mean "Wanna get married?" or more simpy "wanna go canoeing? LOL!" so be careful.

I just hope I can find a Liz that canoes and isn't dumb. LOL!

[RandomProddy]

[quote name='MorphRC' date='Aug 10 2004, 05:38 PM'] Your mind controls everything. You control your mind, you control yourself. [Keep that in context of the topic, and dont go for the 'car line'] [/quote]
Fine, if that true, then if you go for a checkup, when he does the knee-jerk reflex test, tell yourself you can stop it with your mind.

[Iacobus]

[quote name='Noel's angel' date='Aug 10 2004, 10:35 AM'] Good, and im a gentlewoman ( if there is such a thing!) [/quote]
Really not sure why I am saying this... it is the AP brat in me.

Yes, Gentlewomen do exist. They are the wives and daughters of gentlemen, lol. Or at least in the olden sense of the word.

Today, well today, Colleen is making me read books by female authors and *shudders* I am enjoying them. So you can't be sure of anything today.

[stagefairy]

[quote]QUOTE (theculturewarrior @ Aug 11 2004, 01:27 AM)

I have to agree with hughey. Deep kissing has an effect on a man roughly equivalent to...well...I can't say it. That's how bad it is.

Well that shows a weak man, and a weak mind.[/quote]

While I agree that we can control our minds and wills, I think we have to keep in mind that God designed our bodies a certain way. Can you spend a lot of time kissing (and I'm not talking about the friendly peck on the cheek... ) and never lust? Can you be sure that you are not tempting the person you are kissing to lust? God designed us in such a way that deep kissing sets the tone and mood and desire for the marriage act.
Two questions to think about:

What is the purpose of physical intimacy?
Am I trying to find 'how far I can go' without going 'all the way' or am I protecting myself and this person I care about from any hint of lust?

[MorphRC]

[quote name='Noel's angel' date='Aug 11 2004, 02:31 AM'] Who's being fake? Maybe u should be a bit MORE sensitive, sometimes u talk to people in an unfair manner, and im not the only person that thinks this [/quote]
I said, I prefer to be blunt than fake. I didnt point anyone out.

I am sensitive, when the times calls. You talk to me like im missing apart of my brain, Youre to OVER-Sensitive, to everything.

I dont care what people think, what impact are there thoughts gonna have on me?

ZERO.

[MorphRC]

[quote name='RandomProddy' date='Aug 11 2004, 02:37 AM'] This is true though I only seem to do it on this forum. Strange old me



A picture tells a thousand words:

[img]http://cjwinnit.hopto.org/pictures/chillpill.jpg[/img]


[img]http://cjwinnit.hopto.org/pictures/smile.gif[/img] [/quote]
Lol

[MorphRC]

250.000 mgs?????????????????

Is that a valium

[stagefairy]

[quote]Warning to all females, the question from the mouth of Iacobus could mean "Wanna get married?" or more simpy "wanna go canoeing? LOL!" so be careful.
[/quote]

That's funny! I heard you should spend an evening playng board games with them, to see if they are marriage material. I'm glad my husband didn't do that with me, because I tend to throw dice at people when I get mad.... he found that out a little too late, but he can't trade me in now!!!

[franciscanheart]

[quote name='stagefairy' date='Aug 10 2004, 11:27 AM']
That's funny! I heard you should spend an evening playng board games with them, to see if they are marriage material. I'm glad my husband didn't do that with me, because I tend to throw dice at people when I get mad.... he found that out a little too late, but he can't trade me in now!!! [/quote]
hahahahahaha I dont wanna play board games with you either!!!! HAH lol.... those things can hurt if you chunk them hard enough

[franciscanheart]

[quote name='stagefairy' date='Aug 9 2004, 11:41 PM']
I could't help but laugh when I read that. I loved everything you said too.

I think another important thing to remember is: Am I using this person to get something. For guys that can sometimes be physical and for girls it can be emotional. And nobody should ever use another person or be used. [/quote]
hehe....


thanks.


and i couldnt agree more with that.

[franciscanheart]

[quote name='MorphRC' date='Aug 10 2004, 09:55 AM'] pfft. Might as well stay single. [/quote]
i couldnt DISAGREE more

[franciscanheart]

[quote name='mattosika' date='Aug 10 2004, 08:32 AM'] I'm with all of you I don't date, I took a lot of critisism and abuse about it during high school, but thats all over. I have gone as far to make a vow with God and to whoever my future wife will be I am saving my first kiss for our wedding day, and it feels great! [/quote]
wow, will you marry me?
lol


im in high school now and get a lot of carp for my views as well.
heck i get a lot of carp from adults!



i think youre vow is awesome!!!! you seem so cool.

[franciscanheart]

[quote name='theculturewarrior' date='Aug 10 2004, 09:57 AM'] I have to agree with hughey. Deep kissing has an effect on a man roughly equivalent to...well...I can't say it. That's how bad it is. [/quote]
yep.... and its completely unnecessary to bring those feelings into a dating atmosphere. it completely warps your senses.

[StColette]

I agree Laura, it does warp your senses, and we all know that the young people ( lol my self included ) are already warped enough

[franciscanheart]

true dat.... no doubt

[MorphRC]

[quote name='hugheyforlife' date='Aug 11 2004, 03:17 AM'] i couldnt DISAGREE more [/quote]
lol i disagreed with ur statement..so how does that work out?

[MorphRC]

[quote name='StColette' date='Aug 11 2004, 03:25 AM'] I agree Laura, it does warp your senses, and we all know that the young people ( lol my self included ) are already warped enough [/quote]
I believe the PC term is.

Puberty

[franciscanheart]

and i disagreed with your statement which disagreed with mine....


which means we have two very different views, i agree with me (obviously) and you agree with you (obviously)

[Colleen]

[quote name='Iacobus' date='Aug 10 2004, 11:14 AM'] Really not sure why I am saying this... it is the AP brat in me.

Yes, Gentlewomen do exist. They are the wives and daughters of gentlemen, lol. Or at least in the olden sense of the word.

Today, well today, Colleen is making me read books by female authors and *shudders* I am enjoying them. So you can't be sure of anything today. [/quote]
He's right about the gentlewomen.

Oh, and I never [i]made[/i] you read those books. I merely [i]suggested[/i] that you read them. You were the one who went to B&N.

But I'm glad you're enjoying them.