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In terms of dating relationships, what's an acceptable age difference?  

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sweetpea316

Hmm, I put 5 years...but that was before reading the thread (and my personal preference)...but now I'd have to say that it all just depends. My parents are 8 years apart, but I prefer someone closer to my own age. But it all depends on what God's plan is for your life. Who knows. ^_^

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Brother Adam

I'm surprised no one has happened upon an appropriate response. Marriage should take place within the same generation. A 75 year old should not marry a 17 year old. :)

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[quote name='Mrs. Bro. Adam' date='Aug 3 2005, 08:02 AM']He was also more her guardian than her husband.
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1. They were married.

B. Their age difference was not the exception but the rule for the culture.

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Mrs. Bro. Adam

Only because they still 'bought' their wives. Older men married younger women because they could afford them.

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[quote name='Brother Adam' date='Aug 3 2005, 10:56 AM']I'm surprised no one has happened upon an appropriate response. Marriage should take place within the same generation. A 75 year old should not marry a 17 year old. :)
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While I agree about the 17 and 75 year old (because she's a minor), I don't think the generation thing works.

People who are 20-25 years apart are considered of different generations but can very well have a wonderful marriage.

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Brother Adam

[quote name='hot stuff' date='Aug 3 2005, 10:00 AM']1.  They were married.

B.  Their age difference was not the exception but the rule for the culture.
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1. Joseph was still given as caretaker in their marriage, unless you have gone Fundamentalist on us and believe that they had children together.

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Brother Adam

[quote name='Carrie' date='Aug 3 2005, 10:02 AM']While I agree about the 17 and 75 year old (because she's a minor), I don't think the generation thing works.

People who are 20-25 years apart are considered of different generations but can very well have a wonderful marriage.
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Then an 18 and an 95 year old should be able to marry right? The 18 year old is no longer a minor.

Marriage is always a sensitive subject, but through all the Church has said about the purpose of marriage and child rearing, there must be some sort of limits. I would even say that a 60 year old woman should not marry a 20 year old man as it is most likely she has gone through menopause and would not be able to bear children.

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[quote name='Brother Adam' date='Aug 3 2005, 11:03 AM']1. Joseph was still given as caretaker in their marriage, unless you have gone Fundamentalist on us and believe that they had children together.
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Even in today's time, aren't husbands usually seen as caretakers and providers for their wives?

[quote]Then an 18 and an 95 year old should be able to marry right? The 18 year old is no longer a minor. [/quote]

If that was God's will, then I would have no problem with it.

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Brother Adam

I don't think the point is about 'what you want' but rather what is right in the eyes of the Church. I believe canon law states that if there is no possibility for child-bearing there can be no sacramental marriage. But I'm not positive and am trying to look it up right now.

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