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txdinghysailor

[quote name='USAirwaysIHS' date='11 September 2009 - 01:05 AM' timestamp='1252641935' post='1964749']
Perhaps for the well-being of your soul, and perhaps theirs as well, you might not hang around with them any longer.
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Thanks for the advice. I really appreciate the advice from someone who's never met me in real life and whom I barely know. <_< <_<

[quote name='Nihil Obstat' date='11 September 2009 - 01:19 AM' timestamp='1252642797' post='1964760']
Somehow I'm not feeling a crushing sense of disappointment.
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whatever dude, you hang out with who you wanna hang out with, i'll hang out with who i wanna hang out with, and everyone's happy.

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[quote name='StColette' date='10 September 2009 - 04:01 PM' timestamp='1252609299' post='1964520']
Just making sure I'm reading this correctly because I think there might be a typo. "He's aroused out of physical attraction, just like any other woman." Did you mean to say "He's aroused out of physical attraction, just like toward any other woman" or "He's aroused out of physical attraction, just like any other man" or "He's aroused out of physical attraction, just like any woman." or something like that lol

That sentence just reads a little funny, so I'm just trying to clarify.
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"He's aroused out of physical attraction, just like toward any other woman."

That's what I meant.

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[quote name='txdinghysailor' date='11 September 2009 - 09:42 AM' timestamp='1252676575' post='1964879']
Thanks for the advice. I really appreciate the advice from someone who's never met me in real life and whom I barely know. <_< <_<
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The very least you could do for these ladies of ill repute (or at least, who seem like ladies of ill repute by way of your implications) is perhaps introduce them to modesty and chastity.

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[quote name='txdinghysailor' date='10 September 2009 - 09:11 PM' timestamp='1252638718' post='1964726']
uhuh yeah well you more than likely don't hang out with the types of girls that i do.
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[quote name='txdinghysailor' date='11 September 2009 - 07:42 AM' timestamp='1252676575' post='1964879']
Thanks for the advice. I really appreciate the advice from someone who's never met me in real life and whom I barely know. <_< <_<



whatever dude, you hang out with who you wanna hang out with, i'll hang out with who i wanna hang out with, and everyone's happy.
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I think the question that you have to ask yourself is whether or not that's something Jesus is happy with. Jesus loves your friends way more than you do. The pain that he experiences when he sees his creatures, whom he loves deeply, being sexually objectified, willfully or not, is not something we can fully comprehend. But for myself, I would never want to be responsible for causing him that kind of pain. I mean I don't really know how grinding my hips into a guys genitals because its "fun" is anything but objectifying him... I really don't know how that would make Jesus happy... and His opinion is the one that ultimately matters.

I'm not saying you need to stop hanging out with your friends... it's between you and God and your confessor to determine their effect on your relationship with God. But as a Catholic, you have a moral obligation to treat other people with the respect they deserve as being made in the image and likeness of God, whether or not they are choosing to honor that distinction themselves.

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[quote name='txdinghysailor' date='11 September 2009 - 09:42 AM' timestamp='1252676575' post='1964879']
Thanks for the advice. I really appreciate the advice from someone who's never met me in real life and whom I barely know. <_< <_<



whatever dude, you hang out with who you wanna hang out with, i'll hang out with who i wanna hang out with, and everyone's happy.
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sounds like someone needs a hug!



wait...

nvm

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Yer problem is that your grinder isn't wearing eye protection.
He's liable to go blind if any of those searing hot little bits of metal fly through his cornea.

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[quote name='txdinghysailor' date='10 September 2009 - 07:50 AM' timestamp='1252583457' post='1964387']
Some girls I know grind their hips into you when they hug
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Oh, see being a girl who does not do that or see why someone would want to do that to someone who is dating another girl...I didn't take that into consideration.

[quote name='hot stuff' date='10 September 2009 - 11:23 AM' timestamp='1252596212' post='1964431']
That's what happens when you have to pay for hugs
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:hehe:

[quote name='USAirwaysIHS' date='11 September 2009 - 03:52 PM' timestamp='1252698737' post='1964973']
Yer problem is that your grinder isn't wearing eye protection.
He's liable to go blind if any of those searing hot little bits of metal fly through his cornea.
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Yeah he is. It is clear

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txdinghysailor

[quote name='USAirwaysIHS' date='11 September 2009 - 02:44 PM' timestamp='1252691062' post='1964937']
The very least you could do for these ladies of ill repute (or at least, who seem like ladies of ill repute by way of your implications) is perhaps introduce them to modesty and chastity.
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dude, that's not my job. they have to want to change, i'll never be able to make them become more chaste or modest. if they come to me and say "dude, i feel so immodest and used" i'll help em', but i don't think me saying anything will help them. they'll just lose respect for me and push them further away from what's right.

[quote name='zunshynn' date='11 September 2009 - 03:16 PM' timestamp='1252692991' post='1964944']
I think the question that you have to ask yourself is whether or not that's something Jesus is happy with. Jesus loves your friends way more than you do. The pain that he experiences when he sees his creatures, whom he loves deeply, being sexually objectified, willfully or not, is not something we can fully comprehend. But for myself, I would never want to be responsible for causing him that kind of pain. I mean I don't really know how grinding my hips into a guys genitals because its "fun" is anything but objectifying him... I really don't know how that would make Jesus happy... and His opinion is the one that ultimately matters.

I'm not saying you need to stop hanging out with your friends... it's between you and God and your confessor to determine their effect on your relationship with God. But as a Catholic, you have a moral obligation to treat other people with the respect they deserve as being made in the image and likeness of God, whether or not they are choosing to honor that distinction themselves.
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Well gawsh thanks for that. I think I'm really going to have a talk with my spiritual advisor, and do some soul searching. Maybe i've been missing something all along.








PSYCH! Seriously, you think you're going to change me just because of something you said on the board. I think it's pretty obvious i don't have much respect for you, so why would I pay any attention to anything you say? I'm not trying to be mean, i'm just saying, i don't understand why you would say that...

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[quote]PSYCH! Seriously, you think you're going to change me just because ofsomething you said on the board. I think it's pretty obvious i don'thave much respect for you, so why would I pay any attention to anythingyou say? I'm not trying to be mean, i'm just saying, i don't understandwhy you would say that...[/quote]

Do you think you're the first boneheaded sailor to float by these parts? HA!

We've seen you before.

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[quote]PSYCH! Seriously, you think you're going to change me just because of something you said on the board. [b]I think it's pretty obvious i don't have much respect for you[/b], so why would I pay any attention to anything you say? [b]I'm not trying to be mean,[/b] i'm just saying, i don't understand why you would say that... [/quote]

One of these things is not like the other :D

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[quote name='txdinghysailor' date='11 September 2009 - 07:15 PM' timestamp='1252714504' post='1965068']
Well gawsh thanks for that. I think I'm really going to have a talk with my spiritual advisor, and do some soul searching. Maybe i've been missing something all along.




PSYCH! Seriously, you think you're going to change me just because of something you said on the board. I think it's pretty obvious i don't have much respect for you, so why would I pay any attention to anything you say? I'm not trying to be mean, i'm just saying, i don't understand why you would say that...
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What's your issue? Was that called for?

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[quote name='hot stuff' date='11 September 2009 - 09:41 PM' timestamp='1252719679' post='1965109']
Do you think you're the first boneheaded sailor to float by these parts? HA!

We've seen you before.
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Uh, this isn't Justin, if that's what you're implying...

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