Maggyie Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 I DEMAND that my future spouse is white. Am I the only one who noticed this? This is sad, bro.
Winchester Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 Maybe Hutterites have some good thoughts about virgins.
Era Might Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 (edited) Some can handle it better than others. If someone can't handle it, he or she can't handle it. That doesn't make him/her less of a Catholic/Christian as a result (unless one is being hypocritical about it). But I've posted examples, and it was the male moderator who told me that theere was some tension even in their relationship (when neither were virgins) and also for the virgin male engaged to the virgin female. What are you going to do when your wife ignores you because, well, who knows why, she just does? What are you going to do when you've been married 10 years and that virgin isn't a virgin anymore, and you're condemned to a lifetime of non-virgin sex with the same non-virgin? What are you going to do when the kids won't shut up and you lose your job and your wife wants to know where the money is? What are you going to do when your wife gets cancer and you're both virgins for the rest of your (young) lives? What are you going to do when your son dies and your wife checks out emotionally for the rest of her life? You think a woman having sex makes her suspect? There's a lot worse things that can and probably will happen during your marriage. Frankly, if a man can't handle that his wife enjoyed a pleasure in a different life, and he's too delicate to trust a woman who has needs and desires, then I think that man is suspect. I wouldn't trust him to hold the fort down when it all collapses around him. He's better off single and virgin where he can be safe in his idealism. Edited July 23, 2013 by Era Might
Winchester Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 Am I the only one who noticed this? This is sad, bro. I missed that. This dude just gets more and more weird.
Winchester Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 When you buy a new car, having to go easy on it for the first thousand or so miles kind of sucks. You cant to get in that thing and roar down the freeway, but ya gotta go easy.
LittleWaySoul Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 That is already assumed by default. You can find more easily than you can find a virgin. That's why the topic of this thread was where to find a virgin and not where to find love. I don't want to be in love with a non-virgin, plain and simple. No. No, you can't. I know many, MANY nice, young, Catholic virgins who I don't think I will ever be in love with or consider marrying. As long as there was no physical action, I am fine with the girl. Carnal lust is a given in the earlier parts of life. :eek: No. No, it isn't. Lust isn't a given just like premarital sex isn't a given. It's a sin like any other. Sins are willful acts, and are therefore not just something that happens to you.
Selah Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 Am I the only one who noticed this? This is sad, bro. I saw that too. The weirdness just keeps right on going on a downnward spiral. Come on, man, don't evoke the misandrist in me who would gladly bathe in your male, white privileged tears. Seriously, don't.
IcePrincessKRS Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 It's a joke - people brought up controversial topics discussed in the past, and I added one that wasn't mentioned - NFP. Oh. It fell flat.
LittleWaySoul Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 Am I the only one who noticed this? This is sad, bro. I saw that too. The weirdness just keeps right on going on a downnward spiral. Come on, man, don't evoke the misandrist in me who would gladly bathe in your male, white privileged tears. Seriously, don't. I was wondering this too. Seriously, man? You demand that your wife be WHITE?! Why on earth is that? :eek:
HisChildForever Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 To the OP, when you say virgin, are you also implying that she has her hymen intact? If she wasn't born with one, or if it tore during some activity (sports, horseback riding), would you cross her off the list? Just curious to see if you're obsessed with breaking one.
BG45 Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 MLTs are good, but I think not love good... Am I the only one who noticed this? This is sad, bro. No I mentioned it already as making my mind go blank. x.x
IcePrincessKRS Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 Am I the only one who noticed this? This is sad, bro. I noticed it as well. All the non-Caucasian virgins breathed a sigh of relief.
abrideofChrist Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 Welcome to life. Everything in life is a transaction, in one way or another. I actually tried in school and took the time to go to college, not for reasons of personal enlightenment, but so that I could become a more desirable candidate for employers. In exchange for years of school, I expect a decent job that isn't dangerous and pays enough to live on. In exchange for being nice to people who have similar recreational interests, I expect friendship (as do they). In exchange for not using powerful mind altering drugs for recreational purposes, I expect to be held in higher regard than someone who used drugs. In exchange for holding off on messing around until marriage, I want a virgin. Life is full of social contracts. I don't see hoards of CEOs hiring people with no education, or stable professional women who are marrying felons right out of prison. Why? Because they didn't meet the terms and conditions of the social contract. One question for you, do you see men who masturbate, watch porn, fantasize, or look at a woman as a virgin? - considering there is no physical "proof" of virginity? Yes, I do see those men as virgins because they haven't had sex. Wow! You obviously do not know what the Church defines as virginity for males. Masturbation destroys virginity. As for your assumption that you deserve a great job a virgin wife and all that... to that I say your expectations are selfish, self centered, and reek of entitlement. So what if you did x, y, and z right! Lots of other people have done things by the book and have suffered starvation and other ills. We are not Protestants. We can humbly ask God to bless our efforts with material success but we do not deserve them. If I weren't a consecrated virgin, I'd date a million non-virgins over you any day.
HisChildForever Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 I saw that too. The weirdness just keeps right on going on a downnward spiral. Come on, man, don't evoke the misandrist in me who would gladly bathe in your male, white privileged tears. Seriously, don't. Like you and Maggie, I caught it. So did Phil, but his post got swallowed. Sick.
Lil Red Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 Maybe Hutterites have some good thoughts about virgins. or the Kennedy family.
LittleWaySoul Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 To the OP, when you say virgin, are you also implying that she has her hymen intact? If she wasn't born with one, or if it tore during some activity (sports, horseback riding), would you cross her off the list? Just curious to see if you're obsessed with breaking one. I want an answer to this too. I was wondering the same thing.
HisChildForever Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 Is anyone else a little creeped out that PoPo has two lovey-dovey CHERRIES as his avatar??
Winchester Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 To the OP, when you say virgin, are you also implying that she has her hymen intact? If she wasn't born with one, or if it tore during some activity (sports, horseback riding), would you cross her off the list? Just curious to see if you're obsessed with breaking one. Pretty sure sports would mark her as too dangerous to be marrying material.
Lil Red Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 What are you going to do when your wife ignores you because, well, who knows why, she just does? What are you going to do when you've been married 10 years and that virgin isn't a virgin anymore, and you're condemned to a lifetime of non-virgin sex with the same non-virgin? What are you going to do when the kids won't shut up and you lose your job and your wife wants to know where the money is? What are you going to do when your wife gets cancer and you're both virgins for the rest of your (young) lives? What are you going to do when your son dies and your wife checks out emotionally for the rest of her life? You think a woman having sex makes her suspect? There's a lot worse things that can and probably will happen during your marriage. Frankly, if a man can't handle that his wife enjoyed a pleasure in a different life, and he's too delicate to trust a woman who has needs and desires, then I think that man is suspect. I wouldn't trust him to hold the fort down when it all collapses around him. He's better off single and virgin where he can be safe in his idealism.
hoosieranna Posted July 23, 2013 Posted July 23, 2013 I want an answer to this too. I was wondering the same thing. I asked that a couple pages ago. He swept right by.
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