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Can a person be friends with a bishop?


oremus1

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​because it looks like you secretly have all kinds of affection going on?

​Ok, now you're just being obtuse.

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If one meets a bishop friend can they hug them, like if they were a priest or a nun?

​Absolutely not. High fives or fist bumps are acceptable.

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​Absolutely not. High fives or fist bumps are acceptable.

​I am a young woman. I do not do those things. I hug people

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Archaeology cat

​I am a young woman. I do not do those things. I hug people

​I'm a woman and prefer high fives or waves even to hugs. I've just never been a hugging person. Anyway, dUSt was being facetious. If the friend is a fan of hugs as greetings, then OK. I will hug Monsignor and give him a kiss on the cheek because that's how he greets people (like, everyone, not just me), even though I'm not a fan of hugs. 

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​I am a young woman. I do not do those things. I hug people

Learn to shake hands instead. 

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BarbTherese

I was quite friendly with my previous Archbishop - as a teenager, I had known him as a priest and just "Father .......... "

​I always called our Archbishop "Your Grace", even though we were quite friendly and I had known him as a young priest.

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Nihil Obstat

​I am a young woman. I do not do those things. I hug people

​I am a young man. I hate when young women want to hug. Too intimate. Very close friends and family, fine. Anyone else makes me very uncomfortable.

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​I always called our Archbishop "Your Grace", even though we were quite friendly and I had known him as a young priest.

​I like that a lot more than Your Excellency, but I would never say it in fear of being mistaken for British.

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PhuturePriest

​I am a young man. I hate when young women want to hug. Too intimate. Very close friends and family, fine. Anyone else makes me very uncomfortable.

​What about man friends? :|

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What would happen if you tried to hug a bishop? they have feelings too, and probably most people do not hug them that often

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I've hugged my bishop.

He didn't really hug me back... but that's a long story and you can read the court transcripts if you like.

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