Nihil Obstat Posted August 13, 2009 Posted August 13, 2009 (edited) [quote name='Resurrexi' post='1947805' date='Aug 13 2009, 01:04 AM']As far as I am aware, most people are not usually sexually aroused by cuddling.[/quote] You might be surprised. As far as involuntary effects go, cuddling can certainly do it. In my opinon, Principle of the Double Effect applies because the intent is not to arouse, in cuddling. One of her points is that grinding isn't meant to arouse either. Edited August 13, 2009 by Nihil Obstat
Apotheoun Posted August 23, 2009 Posted August 23, 2009 (edited) How could anyone be opposed to grinding pepper? Edited August 23, 2009 by Apotheoun
Christie_M Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 [quote name='dauntingknight' date='28 August 2009 - 09:49 PM' timestamp='1251517742' post='1957634'] Sinful, unless their married. [/quote] I have to disagree. Even if the couple is married, I find grinding to be more innapropriate, IMHO.
Nihil Obstat Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 Nobody is going to help out with my little mini debate?
OraProMe Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 [quote name='Resurrexi' date='13 August 2009 - 02:04 AM' timestamp='1250143497' post='1947805'] As far as I am aware, most people are not usually sexually aroused by cuddling. [/quote] :s Have you cuddled a girl much?
StColette Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 [quote name='Resurrexi' date='13 August 2009 - 02:04 AM' timestamp='1250143497' post='1947805'] As far as I am aware, most people are not usually sexually aroused by cuddling. [/quote] I think you would be very surprised by how sexually arousing cuddling can be for people, especially men, at least that's been my experience. I've known some men that get aroused just by holding hands or just by looking into a girl's eyes. It really just depends on the guy, but I would say generally that the majority of men are going to find cuddling (which can have many different definitions) sexually arousing. Now if you consider cuddling sitting next to each other, upright on a couch with your arm around a girl, I wouldn't see anything wrong with this. If it arouses you continuously to the extent where you really "want" to go farther then I would say refrain from even that type of "cuddling". If by cuddling, you mean spooning, I would say this isn't appropriate at all for people who aren't married. Spooning is generally going to cause sexual arousal and the fact that you're in a laying so close together could make things very awkward (you should get my meaning here). It could also be scandalous to spoon if others are around you. While "you" might be able to handle this type of cuddling yourself it may give others the idea that its appropriate and could lead them to sin. So spooning should be avoided because it could cause scandal, it's not appropriate to be in a lying down position so close to someone you aren't married to, and because it could be a near occasion of sin.
StColette Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 [quote name='Nihil Obstat' date='13 August 2009 - 02:06 AM' timestamp='1250143580' post='1947806'] You might be surprised. As far as involuntary effects go, cuddling can certainly do it. In my opinon, Principle of the Double Effect applies because the intent is not to arouse, in cuddling. One of her points is that grinding isn't meant to arouse either. [/quote] Just because you don't attend something to happen doesn't mean it's okay to do that thing. It's pretty much common sense that rubbing your body against someone is going to either put thoughts in their head or cause sexual arousal. Some things are wrong regardless of intention. Having sex before you're married because it was an "accident" is wrong even if your intention wasn't to go there and you just had a slip up. It's still wrong. Having a good intention or not a bad intention doesn't make an action good.
OraProMe Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 [quote] I think you would be very surprised by how sexually arousing cuddling can be for people, especially men, at least that's been my experience. I've known some men that get aroused just by holding hands or just by looking into a girl's eyes. [/quote] I'm pretty sure teeage boys get turned on by ANYTHING. [quote] So spooning should be avoided because it could cause scandal, it's not appropriate to be in a lying down position so close to someone you aren't married to, and because it could be a near occasion of sin. [/quote] Spooning during a Friday night movie is the best ever.
dauntingknight Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 (edited) I however never had a girlfriend or any girl to really dance with but I'm sure the experiance would really turn boys on and if not carefull be lea lead into greater sin. As you can see with my photo and all. Edited August 29, 2009 by dauntingknight
OraProMe Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 [quote name='dauntingknight' date='29 August 2009 - 11:26 AM' timestamp='1251559596' post='1957817'] I however never had a girlfriend or any girl to really dance with but I'm sure the experiance would really turn boys on and if not carefull be lea lead into greater sin. [/quote] I don't think it's an occasion of sin at all. I've cuddled and spooned many a female and I've never even been tempted to commit a sin. How's that for chastity!
Nihil Obstat Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 [quote name='OraProMe' date='29 August 2009 - 09:53 AM' timestamp='1251561235' post='1957843'] I don't think it's an occasion of sin at all. I've cuddled and spooned many a female and I've never even been tempted to commit a sin. How's that for chastity! [/quote] Truly an example for us all.
Christie_M Posted August 29, 2009 Posted August 29, 2009 [quote name='OraProMe' date='29 August 2009 - 09:53 AM' timestamp='1251561235' post='1957843'] I don't think it's an occasion of sin at all. I've cuddled and spooned many a female and I've never even been tempted to commit a sin. How's that for chastity! [/quote]
cmotherofpirl Posted August 31, 2009 Posted August 31, 2009 [quote name='OraProMe' date='29 August 2009 - 12:53 PM' timestamp='1251561235' post='1957843'] I don't think it's an occasion of sin at all. I've cuddled and spooned many a female and I've never even been tempted to commit a sin. How's that for chastity! [/quote] Then you must have had a sheet of steel between the two of you...
txdinghysailor Posted August 31, 2009 Posted August 31, 2009 [quote name='StColette' date='29 August 2009 - 10:02 AM' timestamp='1251550962' post='1957729'] Spooning is generally going to cause sexual arousal and the fact that you're in a laying so close together could make things very awkward (you should get my meaning here). [/quote] It's only awkward if you make it awkward... [quote name='OraProMe' date='29 August 2009 - 12:53 PM' timestamp='1251561235' post='1957843'] I don't think it's an occasion of sin at all. I've cuddled and spooned many a female and I've never even been tempted to commit a sin. How's that for chastity! [/quote] On the contrary,How's that for an ugly girl!
dauntingknight Posted September 1, 2009 Posted September 1, 2009 [quote name='OraProMe' date='29 August 2009 - 11:53 AM' timestamp='1251561235' post='1957843'] I don't think it's an occasion of sin at all. I've cuddled and spooned many a female and I've never even been tempted to commit a sin.How's that for chastity! [/quote] Your an inspiration for all of us.
jeffpugh Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 [quote name='OraProMe' date='29 August 2009 - 11:53 AM' timestamp='1251561235' post='1957843'] I don't think it's an occasion of sin at all. I've cuddled and spooned many a female and I've never even been tempted to commit a sin. How's that for chastity! [/quote] [quote name='Nihil Obstat' date='29 August 2009 - 11:56 AM' timestamp='1251561364' post='1957845'] Truly an example for us all. [/quote] lawl. [quote name='dauntingknight' date='31 August 2009 - 08:12 PM' timestamp='1251763956' post='1959109'] Your an inspiration for all of us. [/quote] Indeed.
missionseeker Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 [quote name='StColette' date='29 August 2009 - 08:02 AM' timestamp='1251550962' post='1957729'] I've known some men that get aroused just by holding hands or just by looking into a girl's eyes. [/quote] that's just creepy.
jeffpugh Posted September 9, 2009 Posted September 9, 2009 [quote name='missionseeker' date='09 September 2009 - 01:30 AM' timestamp='1252474222' post='1963746'] that's just creepy. [/quote]
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